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TomIRL

33 / M / straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, French (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

I love London, particularly walks and cycling along the Thames (the footpath, not the river itself..).

Live in Richmond in a lovely flat right next to the park.. play lots of tennis, love my work and my friends in London and Brighton.
Now in French
Mon Français n'est-pas trés formidable, donc pardon-moi si te plaît; mais j'aime beaucoup la langue et aussi la campagne de France. Je voudrais parler Français beaucoup plus, et aussi le lire!

J'habite en Londres, je joue la musique (le contrabass et la guitare), et je travail faire des films pour la television et l'Internet.

J'aime jouer le tennis, passer du temps, marcher en nature, la natation, l'architecture, la musique, les pique-niques. Écris moi un message.. dis 'hi'!

What I’m doing with my life

I studied music, made a living playing double bass, whilst making my own music running bands in Brighton.

Then I came back to London and develop new ideas for TV programmes, and help produce a lot of good music documentaries.

I'm inspired by architecture and landscapes, so I like walking in the city or countryside.

I’m really good at

Music.
Having (and developing) ideas.
I've been known to cook some rather tasty and appealing meals.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably that I laugh and smile a lot.
You'll have to tell me what you notice if we meet up!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

A life without chocolate would be possible but difficult.

Likewise shoes.

I have to admit I am really enjoying the iPhone at the moment. It's kind of displaced the MacBook for the moment..

I don't know about people who say 'sex'.. it's not exactly a thing in that sense is it? I think I'd have to say 'love', 'affection' or 'my friends'.

Pen and Paper: I'd go mad without the ability to make stuff, record ideas and develop them.

I'll think of another one..
First thought is that life without vegetation (plants, flowers, trees) would be pretty bleak, but then I'd love to go to the North Pole one day, so I'm sure I could manage..

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to make really good stuff, that really means something to people. Bit vague sounding, but there you have it! I sometimes think about the impacts of new technology.

Wondering whether I'm too silly; or too serious.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, possibly trying out a local ale, unwinding after the week. Having quite a lot of fun.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm pretty competitive when it comes to sport. I have no beard this week.
The two things are not particularly related :p

You should message me if

Oh, you know, if you'd like to message me.
Come and say hi!