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TomORJerry

27 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 23
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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People are wildly various; I can get along with most of them and don't spend much time with the rest of them. I'm fairly inept at experiencing extreme negative emotions, specifically anger.

I am trying to figure out how to traverse this whole "open relationship" journey that I have recently embarked upon. It's exciting and scary. I just want it to be clear that I have a primary partner.

I'm a terrible judge of measurement, though I'm a pretty good judge of character.

ENTP if that's an assessment to which you subscribe.
What I’m doing with my life
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I play society: Full time job, gym, volunteer work. The boring stuff. Let's not talk about it too much.

I've been known to work my ass off and, occasionally, party my tits off.

"It's the freakin' weekend, baby. I'm 'bouta have me some fun." -Gertrude Stein
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
winking.

Adversely, I'm very bad at saying no.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
IDK... that I inhabit visual space?

It depends on what I'm wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Below reads like a masturbation session:

Most recently read: The Casual Vacancy (reading), The Sisters Brothers, All souls trilogy (so far), Glamorama, Catch 22, A Brief History of Everything, Slaughterhouse Five,,,

Movies I've recently enjoyed: Paris is Burning, Blue is the Warmest Color, Nymphomaniac, Thelma and Louise,,,

I don't own a TV, but the shows I most recently keep (kept) up with online: True Detective, American Horror Story, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad (R.I.P.), True Blood, House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Scandal, Girls, Looking,,,

My favorites right now: Sam Smith, Shivum Sharma, Cyril Hahn, Rudimental, London Grammar, MØ, James Blake, Little Dragon, Disclosure, Keep Shelley in Athens, Active Child, Alt-J, Flume, St Lucia, CHVRCHES, Purity Ring, Jessie Ware, MS MR, Mt. Wolf, Bondax, Mr. Little Jeans, Baths, Doe Paoro, Ryan Hemsworth,,,

I love almost all types of Asian food. I like almost everything else. In general, what I cook at home is pretty simple and healthy. I eat a ton of veggies. I'm boring myself now. I just like to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Catherine of Aragon, Anne Boleyn, Jane Seymour, Anne of Cleves, Kathryn Howard, Katherine Parr.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the Gold Club. Or, ya know, whatever else.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I genuinely miss Aaliyah... though not that privately.
You should message me if
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You'd like to make a new friend and/ or connect physically.