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TomORJerry

28 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:01am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
People are wildly various; I can get along with most of them and don't spend much time with the rest of them. I'm fairly inept at experiencing extreme negative emotions, specifically anger.

I'm a terrible judge of measurement, though I'm a pretty good judge of character.

ENFP (and sometimes ENTP) if that's an assessment to which you subscribe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I play society: Full time job, gym, volunteer work. The boring stuff. Let's not talk about it too much.

I've been known to work my ass off and, occasionally, party my tits off.

"It's the freakin' weekend, baby. I'm 'bouta have me some fun." -Gertrude Stein
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
winking.

Adversely, I'm very bad at saying no.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
IDK... that I inhabit visual space?

It depends on what I'm wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Below reads like a masturbation session:

Most recently read: Girl in a band (reading), Quotations from Chairman Mao, The Ethical Slut, The History of Sexuality Volume 1, Das Kapital, A Brief History of Everything. (basically I dropped out of college and went through a period recently where I felt like I had to catch up on lost philosophy).

Movies I've recently enjoyed: It Follows, Mommie Dearest, Life in a Day, Nymphomaniac, Thelma and Louise,,,

I don't own a TV, but the shows I most recently keep (kept) up with online: Broad City, Rupaul's Drag Race, True Detective, American Horror Story, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones, The Jinx, House of Cards, The Walking Dead, Scandal, Girls, Transparent

My favorites right now: Baby Alpaca, Jack Garrat, Young Fathers, Kelela, FKA Twigs, Young and Sick, Ibeyi, Amy Winehouse, Arca, Janet Jackson

I love almost all types of Asian food. I like almost everything else. In general, what I cook at home is pretty simple and healthy. I eat a ton of veggies. I'm boring myself now. I just like to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Catherine of Aragon, Anne Boleyn, Jane Seymour, Anne of Cleves, Kathryn Howard, Katherine Parr.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the Gold Club. Or, ya know, whatever else.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I genuinely miss Aaliyah... though not that privately.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to meet up and you aren't in search of your future husband.