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TomRobbinsFan

52 M Kirkersville, OH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:32am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To my children who said, 'stop being so shy' and pushed me into this; it's very sweet you worry about your dad and OK to admit you don't want me living in your basement when I'm 90.

First - I am willing to lie through my teeth about how we met; a police line up, a gender reassignment clinic, the beaches of Normandy, June 6, 1944, Moon Base Alpha, etc. You know, something people will believe.

Second - I am convinced that anyone, including myself, expecting love at first sight past age 50 is expecting the improbable. Lives have been lived rather than awash in possibility, we have histories, and there is much more at stake. Look, if you don't beat me up and steal my wallet I'll go home thinking things went pretty well.

Lastly - I have survived my mid-life crisis without a Corvette, a goatee, a 25 year old girlfriend, or hair transplants. I bought an electric guitar and wrote really bad songs. I have no Harley and no tattoos. I LOVE racing go-karts, day trips to nowhere, live rock bands, blues music and amusement parks...except the rides that spin a lot.

Update: This e-cig really helps with the smoking habit! It isn't smoke! Pretty cool.

What motivated me to get on a dating site? Passing age 50 and feeling my mortality? Mileage points on my credit card? Past basic needs and fears I arrived at a long standing truth. I have always known I am at my very best in a monogamous, caring relationship. I am funnier, sexier, more alive, more affectionate...more everything. I am myself times ten and I like the way that feels. And it's not too bad for the person on the receiving end either.

I have been married twice which I find embarrassing. First time for 14 years that ended in a typical way. became different people with different goals and fell out of love. She's a great mom and I'm glad to see her happily remarried. The second was brief. I was dazzled by a badly damaged chronic cheater who hid her history very well and I suppose I didn't want to see the warning signs. That was six years ago.

My sole request is this; if you have ever cheated on a significant other do not contact me.

Mostly I miss intimacy. Yes I know the difference between intimacy and sex. Sunday mornings with coffee on the porch, feet touching but not saying much. Saturday night tucking you into bed because you had a little too much to drink. Tuesday after work making dinner together, talking about our days and giving your bottom a friendly squeeze, cuddled together watching a summer storm on the porch swing...that's intimacy.

I am not a hitter, a screamer, or a name caller. I'll argue something I feel strongly about, but never brutally. Blowing out your candle does not make mine any brighter.

What am I looking for? I am not a list of pros and cons to be objectively reviewed and neither are you, so there is no easy answer to that question. A confidant, a sanctuary, someone not afraid to need and be needed, an inspiring and inspired lover, someone who does not feed on angst, someone capable of trusting their mate. Basically me, except with girl parts. A sense of humor, especially about yourself is key. Freakishly large breasts, small engine repair skills, and a private jet would be big pluses but not required.

It does not matter how much education you have. Schooling and intelligence are not the same thing. It does not matter what you do for a living so long as you are not miserable doing it. Shy of emaciated or obese I have no body 'type' I find more attractive than another. I don't want to change you or keep you from doing what you've always enjoyed even if it's not my thing. If you collect potato chips that resemble US Presidents, that's cool; and I will be sincerely thrilled for you when you find the one that looks like Martin Van Buren. My photos are recent but I've noticed they do not reveal every line and crease. But I'm not going to make a point of someone taking closeups with an HD camera!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughing like a maniac with my kids
Quiet reading time
Physical affection
Listening to owls
Watching a meteor shower
Riding my bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to stop thinking so much.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You cannot think I would write anything of consequence where it is viewable by 7 billion people.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating