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26 El Cajon, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Today – 8:26am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I love to laugh and enjoy all San Diego has to offer! This includes anything and everything from sushi dives to hikes, kayak days to range trips, and everyone's favorite: beer week!

I seek unique; a dynamic, colorful, even eccentric amiga to engage in crazy shenaniganry with. I need someone that shares my view that to conform is to be boring. Absurdity is hilarity.

...So I chose my username when I answered to my last name a lot (How the hell were there 3 Steves in one class?!). The name's Steve T. Like Mr. T, but without the gold chains and intimidating stature. I also answer to STS-125 and 'Hey you, with the face...'
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Mechanical Engineer at General Atomics Aeronautical. My job is awesome and my coworkers are funny as hell. I build MQ-1 Predators, Grey Eagles, and MQ-9 Reapers. I absolutely love having a job where I can have fun all day designing things, and go home knowing my friends and cousins overseas are safer for it.

I'm working on my MS in Engineering Management. I've found that I really enjoy guiding groups of engineers. Although that's like enjoying guiding herds of cats...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, laughing, and joking around. Nerf battles. Tabletop games (everything from Exploding Kittens to D&D). Paddling too hard on one side of the kayak so that we basically just zig-zag to our destination.

Now that I have a garage to work in, I'd love to start tinkering and doing cosplay gear.

...Yyyyeees, I said cooking. I'm an accidentally good cook, and will gladly feed you heaps of delicious. As in, sun dried tomato stuffed chicken thighs over tortellini, vodka-artichoke mac-n-cheese, porter-bello burgers, from-scratch albondigas, and southern style mac casserole. I love to create!...I'm also a fan of lamb, sloth, orangutan, and breakfast cereal.

Next on the list: beer braised balsamic bacon beef shanks (...with chipotle, but that breaks the rhyme)... This to be served with bears and beets while watching Battlestar Galactica.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The mildly drunk, mostly crazy 50-something woman at the Arco station the other day said eyes. Or maybe she wanted ice. I'm not sure. It sounded flattering, so I'll take it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Brit humor... Monty Python, Shaun of the Dead, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, that type of shtuff. Top Gear UK. Sherlock. Lolcats. Star Trek, Star Wars, LotR (the Nerdy trinity).

Food: YAAAAY!!! All of it. I can haz all the foodz. Naow.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family.
2. My chocolate lab. He still thinks he's allowed to sit on my lap, except he's 85lb! (Update: 92lb. He found my parents' avocado orchard and likes guacamole. He even asks permission!)
3. Challenge. I've built my life by selecting a challenge, then making it cry uncle. Intellectual, philosophical, physical.
4. Direction. I'm used to being in charge of myself and being able to guide others to success.
5. Kitchen. See (3).
6. Picard memes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make homemade gyros, and what completely un-Greek spin I could put on it. Update: I'm considering cilantro-avocado tzatziki... thoughts?
Updated update: cilantrocadoziki is a go, but might need lemon and/or tequila.

Neil Degrasse Tyson. I mean, who doesn't?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...either at home for a serious relax sesh of Netflix, or out grabbing food and craft beer with friends. I left the clubbing scene where it belongs - college.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have strong opinions on tree species. Don't get me started on eucalyptus.
You should message me if
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...Let's be real, I'll message you.

I'm looking for a redneck princess, an outdoorsy mario kart expert, a garage buddy with a closet full of heels, and a spur-of-friday-afternoon-road-trip codriver. Dorkettes, nerd-ines, and tomboys are all welcome.