Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to LA in March
I'm equal parts super spiritual
animal loving lesbian, and
uber queeny gay man.
My life's motto might be "Do no harm, but take no shit."
I don't drink alcohol, but don't mind if others do.
What I'm looking for~
I am dating, and enjoying that very much, but my end goal would be
to have a partner whom I am on a spiritual journey, as well the
regular life stuff. This spiritual life includes much laughter and
abundance. Beyond that I'm open to whatever way we build it. I'm
open to all styles of relationship, nothing has to be conventional,
because we are not conventional people. This doesn't have to happen
immediately. I'm enjoying every part of the process.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am doing ALC for the second year in a row. It's an amazing
experience I highly recommend!
I am writing comedy
, which is so fun! I am also
hosting a web series with a dear friend about love, sex and
relationships. I am fending off a mid-life crisis.
I am a Meisner trained actor. BUT I am looking at what my next
career is post Acting. I'm looking for something that will I feel
passionately about, that will not only be personally fulfilling but
will allow me to be of service to others. In the meantime I am
still tending bar, because I'm really good at it. I've spent my
whole adult life doing jobs that were non conventional. The idea of
having an office and regular hours and insurance sounds kind of
surreal and romantic. (But I'm pretty sure that won't be happening
any time soon. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Comedic acting/improv. Being present for my pals. Focusing on the
bigger picture. Giving love advice. I also kick ass at karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. Usually smudged with too much eyeliner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love sci-fi books and films. I can't wait till they FINALLY make
a movie version of Neuromancer, though it will surely be a big
disappointment. I STILL can't wait!
I love healthy whole food, best of fresh from a garden. I'm very
health conscious, and my diet reflects that.
I freaking LOVE Downton Abbey. When is it coming back on?
The Four Agreements. #TheEnd #GoodNight #AllYouNeed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my chosen family (including pups)
everything else I can make it work without....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My homemade kefir water.
How to manifest more beauty in this lifetime.
How to laugh more.
My solo performace piece I'm creating.
How to be a better person. Not in a self flagellating kind of way.
I am very interested in spirituality, and love a good discussion
about the universe, higher power, G-d, what ever anyone likes to
call her. ;)
How to make a funny joke funnier, the skill of comedy writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working, maybe meeting a friend for dinner or a drink. I
also love seeing live performances of every sort. Bands, cabaret
acts, karaoke, plays, drag shows, etc. But to be honest because I
work in the nightlife, I prefer to stay in many nights. #lame
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once shat my pants walking down the street when I lived in NYC. I
was in the middle of a colon cleanse. THAT was a surprise!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have already had a relationship with a woman before, are
probably more femme than not (but honestly chemistry matters more
than butch/femme), are ready to laugh. If you are pretty and smart
and funny I may follow you anywhere.
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