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Tom_of_Finland

41 F North Hollywood, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:41pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Two-year college
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am moving to LA March 15.

I'm equal parts super spiritual animal loving lesbian, and broadway singing, uber queeny gay man.

My life's motto might be "Do no harm, but take no shit."

I don't drink alcohol, but don't mind if others do.

What I'm looking for~

I am dating, and enjoying that very much, but my end goal would be to have a partner whom I am on a spiritual journey, as well the regular life stuff. This spiritual life includes much laughter and abundance. Beyond that I'm open to whatever way we build it. I'm open to all styles of relationship, nothing has to be conventional, because we are not conventional people. This doesn't have to happen immediately. I'm enjoying every part of the process.
What I’m doing with my life
I am doing ALC for the second year in a row. It's an amazing experience I highly recommend!

I am writing comedy, which is so fun! I am also hosting a web series with a dear friend about love, sex and relationships. I am fending off a mid-life crisis.

I am a Meisner trained actor. BUT I am looking at what my next career is post Acting. I'm looking for something that will I feel passionately about, that will not only be personally fulfilling but will allow me to be of service to others. In the meantime I am still tending bar, because I'm really good at it. I've spent my whole adult life doing jobs that were non conventional. The idea of having an office and regular hours and insurance sounds kind of surreal and romantic. (But I'm pretty sure that won't be happening any time soon. :)
I’m really good at
Comedic acting/improv. Being present for my pals. Focusing on the bigger picture. Giving love advice. I also kick ass at karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes. Usually smudged with too much eyeliner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love sci-fi books and films. I can't wait till they FINALLY make a movie version of Neuromancer, though it will surely be a big disappointment. I STILL can't wait!

I love healthy whole food, best of fresh from a garden. I'm very health conscious, and my diet reflects that.

I freaking LOVE Downton Abbey. When is it coming back on?

The Four Agreements. #TheEnd #GoodNight #AllYouNeed
The six things I could never do without
my chosen family (including pups)

everything else I can make it work without....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oneness
My homemade kefir water.
How to manifest more beauty in this lifetime.
How to laugh more.
My solo performace piece I'm creating.
How to be a better person. Not in a self flagellating kind of way. I am very interested in spirituality, and love a good discussion about the universe, higher power, G-d, what ever anyone likes to call her. ;)
How to make a funny joke funnier, the skill of comedy writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not working, maybe meeting a friend for dinner or a drink. I also love seeing live performances of every sort. Bands, cabaret acts, karaoke, plays, drag shows, etc. But to be honest because I work in the nightlife, I prefer to stay in many nights. #lame
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once shat my pants walking down the street when I lived in NYC. I was in the middle of a colon cleanse. THAT was a surprise!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You have already had a relationship with a woman before, are probably more femme than not (but honestly chemistry matters more than butch/femme), are ready to laugh. If you are pretty and smart and funny I may follow you anywhere.