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Tomforfun36

49 Portland, OR Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I have experienced a lot of things in my life and plan to continue the trend. I love to play, laugh and be outdoors. And I can be totally serious when needed. My life is balanced but full of adventure. I love to explore and really experience life.

Life is about experiences and the people you meet and spend time with along the way. And I am much more interested in collecting experiences over things, more interested in quality people over quantity of people. We should all value ourselves and our time enough to be selective of who gets our attention, while being able to see value in others...even if they aren't our romantic match.

Meeting new people is fun - sometimes there is chemistry and a new friendship (and maybe more if all goes well) and if not...well, another experience. In short, I have a zest for life and am truly interested in fun, captivating people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Striving for world peace... just kidding, that's too big, but wouldn't it be nice? I try not to take myself, or others too seriously. I work in a technical field - and as such I work to be aware of myself and others. I like feeling fulfilled and believe I am successful at doing so. This results in trying new things and exploring - while being respectful, kind and honest.

I'm in a great place in my life; very happy with my professional life, family life, and for the most part my social life. Looking to expand my horizons and experiences. Sharing with others is key...captivating stories, wicked good conversation, keen wit and being sensual - these make life fun. Plus a good drink/brew to discuss the day over.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing. Connecting. Communicating. Dazzling my clients with my brilliance and talents. I am fabulous at listening and not being judgmental. Come on... we all have our stuff. I just don't get weird about it and really look for the positive in life. Maybe too much at times. I pay attention to others and I am good at fulfilling my needs too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, athletic build and my fun sense of humor. I love talking to people - especially after I get past my initial shyness. I love to play and have fun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh dear.... I love a lot of stuff. It is easier to identify what I dislike - which can be described as morbid stories, unintelligent shows, dud music and bland food.

I really like science/sociology/factoid books. Non fiction primarily. But I also love the classics. And indie and foreign films rule. Some of the pop films are just pandering to the lowest common denominator.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great food and wine
Aerobic excercise
Awesome sex
Fantastic kissing
Fun people
Stimulating conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why can't people enjoy life more? Dogs have it figured out.
How I can impact the lives of young people in a positive way?
When can I get away for the next vacation?
Is my smart phone actually smarter than me?
What would happen if I pressed that button?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having dinner or drinks with friends a preparing for a race the next day. Sometimes both - which leads to less than stellar performance on Saturday. Or spending it with my daughter and catching up on the week.

Overall, the focus is on having fun and doing what feels right.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not a lot to hide...at least that I'll tell here. The remainder you will have to ask.
You should message me if
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You are a positive person who enjoys life, and is interested in making a new friend and seeing where it might go.

You have a zest for life, would describe yourself as fun, are grounded but don't take things too seriously and are fantastic at kissing!