Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Thank you for stopping by. I'm a humble guy, dancing fool and free
spirit (or at least an inexpensive one). I'm a scientist who loves
the arts (visual,musical, theatrical, dance, poetry...); an
American who wishes he could write like an Irishman; and an
open-hearted and hopeful romantic who is realistic, currently
unattached and possesses, I hope, a certain amount of charm. I'm
the nice guy who finishes last, who is secure, affectionate,
down-to-earth, up-beat, warm, sincere, sensual, playful, creative,
spontaneous, easy-going, intelligent, physically and emotionally
available, far less suborn than the stereotypical Taurus and made
up entirely of faults, stitched together with good intentions. Yes,
I am as imperfect as anyone on the planet, open-minded, politically
progressive and believe that the intangible things like family,
friendship, peace and love are what really matter.
(A brief note about okcupid's many questions: Life is NOT a
multiple choice question!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am always trying to be wiser, more courageous. more generous,
more knowledgeable and, in general, trying to be the best 'me' I
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't know about 'really good' but I suspect I am an acceptable
member of my family, friend, cuddler, reader, writer, crossword
puzzle solver, and I can remain calm and positive in the midst of
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy good books (novels, short stories, biographies, history,
science etc.), good films (usually foreign and independent films),
good music (classical, jazz, blues, reggae, rock, rap, traditional,
Celtic and contemporary...) and good food that isn't mass produced.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, freedom of thought and expression, my brother, my family and
friends, art (music, visual, theater, literature, etc....) and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... the beauty and vastness of the universe, the complexities and
contradictions of human behavior and the blessings of my family and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be out listening and dancing to live music, at a play, film
or art gallery, at a party with friends, at home reading or on the
computer or, if I have had a long week in bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am made up entirely of faults stitched together with good
You should message me if
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If you have read this far and are still intrigued, can appreciate a
nice guy and are a romantically unattached woman with a warm heart,
a good head and trim to average figure send me a note or flirt. I'm
looking for a partner in crime, some good chemistry and a little
magic. It would ultimately be fantastic to develop a deep and
durable love but I think even the longest and most passionate
romances begin as something informal and casual and grow and
strengthen over time. I do not need promises of love forever and
ever as long as honesty, affection and openness from both of us are
involved. Whether you contact me or not I thank you for your
patience and wish you only the best in life and love.
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