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Tommy9981

28 / M / straight / Single

Yonkers, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am Lubricious, Sarcastic, and Silly.

My Self-Summary

I've had bad luck choosing ladies, so I'm looking for a blind match here on OK Cupid... It's really easy to get along with me, and you'll find out early with me that I can ruffle a few feathers as well. I love to argue about anything from politics to pop culture. I'm not overly into sports, but I do enjoy watching games with my buds. I can't stand a lady that refuses to watch scary movie with their man or doesn't like to snuggle.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, I'm working my way back into EMS... Hopefully I'll be on an ambulance soon, doing what I love... I'm trying to get back into sports... I just got into Rugby! Go Lansdowne!! I just moved back from Waaaay upstate NY and started reconnecting with old friends. I'm also looking to make some new ones, as well ;^)

I’m really good at

The size of these boxes are really intimidating...lol I'm really good at lots of stuff... idk... lol
Making Cartoon voices?
Making people laugh?
Great with kids...
TV/Movie trivia...
Cooking (sorta)
Connecting Audio/ Visual equipment
Magic: the Gathering although I don't play that much anymore
Origami (if I have a book in front of me, but I do know the Samurai hat pretty by heart)
Video games (but I don't like sports games much)
Reading out loud
Acting ( like a part or role playing ;^D)
Board games
[Rugby (Nah... But getting better)
Clue
Poker
Lifting heavy things
Discus

The first things people usually notice about me

How "big" I am... I'm Tall and broad shouldered... One of my favorite things in life is seeing a small child cower at me until I get down on my knees and talk to them in Elmo voice or Donald Duck... Then they think I'm their new best friend!! I often experiment with my Goatee... Should it stay or go? People also say I look REALLY intimidating when I wear my Oakley sunglasses, but look like a raccoon because of the tan line when I take them off!!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Jim Butcher's The Dresden files are my favorite books right now... I did read a little series called Percy Jackson and the Olympians It's like an American version of Harry Potter, but with Greek gods instead of magic. Look into those!! It's getting it's own movie, too!!Movies are odd... I'll watch anything as long as there's no moral that the directer wants to beat me over the head with... I do love a good Horror, though... Music Whatever... mood driven, usually loud regardless...

The six things I could never do without

excluding friends and family?
the Beach
My Gerber Multi-tool
Goldfish multi- grain crackers (yummy)
I love Slimfast and drink it even when I'm not dieting...
A comfy Tee-shirt
Long... Hot... showers!!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What's a lot of time? I think about lots of stuff... Friends? Family? Money? Religion? That silly pic I saw on the web that makes my smile and giggle on the inside? Where the hell did THAT bruise come from?! What tee will it be today?

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing second banana to my friends or family couples playing with thier kids... I don't have many single friends... I've changed more diapers on more kids then I'd like to count! Ummm... Wanna to help me out a little? ;^) I also have to get up early for Rugby, so not a whole lot... Saturday is big. Usually a session at the Heritage after the games. Food and band in a full house makes me happy I joined up, even though I ache all over... Is there a game/fight/event on? If there is, I'll be looking for people to watch it with.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a Jedi! Laugh all you want, But I can day dream!

You should message me if

you have an itch you can't reach!
Seriously? If you don't carry a big ol' bag of drama with you.
you look forward to good times.
you need a body disposed of.
you are not superficial.
you like a warm heart and body to cuddle with.
your umbilical cord is cut (meaning your parents don't run your life. I talk to my mom all the time, but she's not doing my laundry anymore and wiping my mouth after I eat... You know the people I'm talking about!)