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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-75
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 30, 2013
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English, English
My self-summary
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Married white male, seeking married or select singles. If that offends your sense of morality, please look elsewhere.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just to set the record straight, I am not here whoring around on my wife. To use a sports term, she has been on "the physically unable to perform" list for years. Yes I said years. Through no fault of her own (or mine) health issues have robbed us of intimacy. For years I dealt with it and remained faithful, sticking to my vows.

Last year I was rushed to the hospital. Basically at four in the afternoon I was told not to make dinner plans, I would be in the morgue by then. That changes the way you look at things.

I made the decision then that I would try and live life to the fullest. I was going to "reach out" and see if I could find a FWB. That was a year ago and I have just done it now.

I am looking for ONE special person to be both my friend and my lover. I want someone I could meet on a regular basis (once a month), a semi-regular basis (once every two months), or once a quarter to have passionate sexual relations. In between, we would talk, e-mail, text as good friends. How often we actually meet would be up to you.

I am discreet and ask that you be too, as I would never want to hurt my wife. It's not her fault, but I do have primal needs. I would prefer someone in a semi-committed relationship, but if you are single, that's alright, just so you know up front, I am not willing to give up everything I have because of our relationship.

As I said, I would like ONE special FWB, as I am not looking to put notches on my belt. I will be (for lack of a better term) faithful to you and will always be a gentleman treating you with respect and dignity. I am not clingy, I look at it if you are willing to be my FWB, then I should treat you right.

If this is not what you are interested in, then thank you for reading this. If it appeals to you in any way, please contact me. Please don't judge me until you have walked a mile in my shoes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things. Making people laugh, feel at ease. I am good with a camera and take that seriously. I am good at friendships and treating people the right way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, I never asked. OK, my charming personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bios, history, world events. I like most all music, but......wait for you never heard this before.......anything but rap. I love spicy food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, my iMac, spicy food, my car, a drink and a spicy woman.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I wrote that down, they would turn this website into a parking lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing chauffeur, being with my kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a lesbian in a man's body.
You should message me if
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You wish to be with someone who is funny, sensual and charming.