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Toms_username

32 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:27pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay), Irish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for girls that I can see casually and make the little time that I have free count. I have an erratic schedule and can almost never make it to normal social events like happy hour. I am a music teacher and much of my afternoons and evenings are spent teaching or performing.
Up for an evening coffee at Ritual? or a drink and some live music at Cafe Rev? The city has a lot to offer and I love learning something new from whoever I am with. I need to be mentally stimulated to truly be attracted to a girl. I also need to respect everyone I sleep with, it's a condition. The most attractive quality is honesty. Brutal honesty. I tend to be sexually dominant, no nonsense. So if you are a sub looking for a dom, hit me up. However, I adapt to the partner I'm with.

Hmmmm, What next? I love my job, I am a music teacher and I get a kick out of working with kids, but I also teach adults and some college too.

Let me try to get deep,
I am introspective, but I can be outgoing. I like to be happy, however, I can also be cynical. I suppose everyone is full of these little contradictions.

I am remarkably even tempered and level headed. I can make friends easily, but I prefer to keep a tight circle of 'select' ones.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach and play music for a living, which I am very lucky to do so. I have a few other projects brewing as well just to keep life interesting and new.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Slipping out of handcuffs, evading arrest, forging passports, bribing officials, starting new lives, etc.
I'm going to refrain from listing sexual things here. Let's keep this classy, OKCupid.
Um for reals: Trivia, Vocabulary, remembering names, recommending movies, directions, music I suppose (I did major in it), being a smarty pants
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm tall, then after that I don't know. I haven't asked many people what they first noticed about me. That would be weird.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
F. Scott Fitzgerald for sure, especially the short stories, some classic detective Noir novels i.e. Raymond Chandler & Dashiell Hammett. So many others, of course.

I love older classic movies, Film Noir, Westerns, French New Wave etc.

Twin Peaks! Portlandia, It's Always sunny, Breaking Bad, MST3K, Mad Men, etc

Too much music to go into now. But of late: Beach House, St. Vincent, Family of the Year, Phantogram, Dirty Projectors
Always Classic: The Shins, Wilco, Ryan Adams, various indie, Simon and Garfunkle, Punk Rock

Food: French, Italian, Mexican, Peruvian, American, Canadian, Icelandic, Belgian, Swiss, Scottish, Turkish - I just started naming random nationalities at the end there.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides family and friends-
Instruments
Books
Nature
Food
Coffee
Beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Once again, besides the obvious. Honestly, music. It's what I do day in, day out.
How I can escape if need be from various buildings
Where I want to travel
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably teaching, or in the wine country at a gig. Perhaps some venue in the mission playing, or just being part of the crowd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can never do those magic-eye things. It's a shame I live with.
You should message me if
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If you're not looking for anything serious, but still want to be taken seriously, listened to, and treated like a person. Not to mention, have an honest conversation