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39 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 9
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm constantly researching the extremes of pleasure. At the moment I am looking for a sensual and erotic (but not necessarily sexual) play partner who wants to enjoy the pleasurable facets of trance domination. I've always been a hypno-fetish junkie and now I am developing extreme skills. Fun topic.

Also love to play with energy and erotic power.

Previous partners say that they become more orgasmic (all the time) just from hanging around me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running a sexuality revolution! Down with shame, guilt, fear in relating! Out with jealousy, competition, and possessiveness!

Teaching and coaching powerful sexy (mostly) women in shifting to change the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hypnosis/trancework. Bodywork. Healing. Energy. Marketing. Sales. Karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Infectious laugh. Relaxing voice. And open, laughing eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Groundhog Day. Casablanca. V for Vendetta. Matrix. Asian food (thai, indian, sushi)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
tech gadgets ;)
Intelligence and deep conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to help others and myself to have more pleasure than they comprehend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I kind of have deep, intense meetings and am rather open to when that happens.

That said, my 'alone time' is quite valuable to me and I do take a lot of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm the most intense person you're ever going to meet (at least once you go deep with me). Think zen master + BDSM dom + pleasure guru.
You should message me if
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You are affectionate, enjoy touch, are looking for powerful experience, appreciate humor and intelligence.

And are at least slightly interested in surrender.

"There are two sources of conflict in relating. One is 'how much do you love me?' The other is 'who is in charge'?"