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30 M Missoula, MT

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Last Online
Yesterday – 5:32pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am something of a nomad trying to blend back into the normal world gradually and gently, or maybe neither. I seem to be sticking around here for awhile though, perhaps?

In the past couple of years I have worked two summers in Alaska camping all over the place and working in the rain and wind for Americorps. Since then I have seen gross things at a large poultry farm in Washington, helped turn a ridiculous amount of organic grapes into a ridiculous amount of wine in California, worked at a tiny music festival on an island in the Puget Sound, helped construct a 30 foot tall effigy of an Indian demon out of cardboard (which we then burned at a festival, complete with fireworks!), driven llamas around in a van, hitchhiked up California, been kicked out of Canada, worked in the visitors center of a Wildlife Refuge, and all sorts of other adventures in between.

At the moment I make soap at an organic soap company, and though it is rather neat, I am hoping to find something closer to my passions in the near future.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to balance and compromise my desire for a "normal" life, my need for escapes like books, drawing, travel, along with my own constantly developing personal philosophy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking and talking and talking about books
Talking craft beer
Making Bread
Making tasty food on the cheap
Making a little go a long way
Stippling, cross hatching, line work
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've been as strict of a vegetarian as I can be for about three years now. I am not one to preach, or mind if others eat meat around me, or even mind cooking it really. Just not for me at the moment.

I read a lot, and have a hard time passing a used bookstore without at least taking a peek. A Norton Anthology of Modern Poetry has been my travelling company for the past three years. I greatly enjoy Steinbeck, Faulkner, Cormac McCarthy, Vonnegut, and many others, with Philip K Dick probably being my favorite author. What he lacks in writing style or technique, he more than makes up for with incredible ideas and thought provoking themes. I enjoy lighter stuff too, I have read all the Harry Potters, Hunger Games, and the Golden Compass series and enjoyed them all a lot.

As far as music goes I like Animal Collective, Fleet Foxes, Andrew Bird, Modest Mouse, Caribou, Wolf Parade, Dr Dog, Deer Tick, and other bands with/without animal based names...

I like Waking Life, Clint Eastwood westerns, the Mad Max movies, Daniel Day-Lewis, Leonardo DiCaprio, eighties science fiction, Primer, Moon, the Cube series, Anchorman...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
something to draw on / draw with
close friends / human contact
books that force me to think
desire to learn more, to improve myself
hope for the future of the human race
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am doing with my life, what I should be doing with my life, and all the influences that can come into play.

How much time is left to own a bookstore, not in a big city, and have it work out financially.

Why some form of farming isn't listed on this site under jobs. Everyone eats I assume, yet no one farms I guess.

Wondering about people and the amount of empathy they have for other people and various kinds of animals.

The preface of the first edition of Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman as follows, and how wonderful it is:
"This is what you shall do: Love the earth and sun and the animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence toward the people, take off your hat to nothing known or unknown or to any man or number of men, go freely with powerful uneducated persons and with the young and with the mothers of families, read these leaves in the open air every season of every year of your life, re-examine all you have been told at school or church or in any book, dismiss whatever insults your own soul; and your very flesh shall be a great poem and have the richest fluency not only in its words but in the silent lines of its lips and face and between the lashes of your eyes and in every motion and joint of your body."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I had the mind of Carl Sagan and Richard Feynman, could play baseball like Pete Rose (minus the gambling bit), and write poetry like E. E. Cummings and Walt Whitman.
You should message me if
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If you want to have an interesting conversation, if you read anything at all. If you're passionate about something, and not just collecting material goods and status symbols.