Updated 2/9/14: I'll be moving to Loveland from the bay area in April. I'll be 60 by then but still do Triple ByPass type climbs.
I'm going to lay it on the line here as far as the kind of person I am looking for, and who I am. To start, know that I am open to fully support you monetarily if you want to participate in my pet project....more on that later. If not, we can still discuss options as I am supportive of you doing whatever you'd like to do!
However ,if you are allergic to cats, stop here!
Kids comment: I chose not to have any kids due to the lifestyle I wanted to live, and while I have no regrets making this decision, I did decide about 20 years ago to become a mentor and a CASA for at-risk kids. I also started a foundation to help less fortunate kids, and at this time I am still in touch with more than 6 now young-adults (still really kids), a few that I still support to some extent (not to enable them, but to allow them to survive). This is meant to alleviate concerns that I do not know how to relate to kids even though I had none of my own. Fact is I relate very well to kids; young adults, etc.
I'm looking for someone that lives by the rules of acceptance and goes with the flow, is sweet, kind, compassionate, empathetic and generous wanting to help others. Whatever age you age, you still have girlish-type looks with the ability to be silly and truly live knowing life is too short to sweat the small stuff.....
I'd really like you to be a cyclist that would annually like to do a week long supported ride, like Cycle Oregon or the BTC.
Who would also like to go back to NY at least once if not twice a year for plays, concerts, and visiting with my relatives there!
A gal that enjoys rock and blues music (went to my first dead show in 1973), and going to events at Rocky Grass and RR's when someone of interest in playing there. As for the physical relationship aspect, someone who really enjoys it to the max is as simple as I can put it, and who believes in communicating when necessary to ensure outstanding pleasure.
As for me, I'm first generation and my parents went tough childhoods, which has contributed to aspects of my personality, including being a kibitzer; I try my best to be a mensch too; to call yourself one means lacking humility so I only say I try my best. I do not like to argue! I like to be able to discuss any topic amicably and if necessary to fight, then to at least fight fair!
While it is important to disclose that I still enjoy some habits left over from the Grateful Dead days, I wish to also advise that I am seasoned over 40 years, can maintain excellantly, and simply prefer it over alcohol so I only have drinks in social settings.
As for the pet project, the basic aspect is this: I will be raising up to 15 kittens at the same time, filming, training, and loving them. They will eventually do charitable shows and be used for fundraising events. There will be volunteers and others involved so as not to tie us down from travel and fun. The property basement is for the kitties and exceeds 2000 SF.
It won't matter if this is of no interest to you if we click in enough other ways, which means I am supportive of you doing whatever what you want, but you at least need to be a kitty lover!
Oh, there will also be a dog or two in the mix too!
We both know the basic aspects that are nice to have in common, but chemistry is the first domino that has to fall, so write me if you want to meet. The odds are steep, so any possibility is worth pursuing at least for 10 minutes, where the eyes don't lie.
If you do have an interest but want to ask something, ask away!
REQUEST: I get a fair number of views but not as many contacts and I am curious as to why not? So, my request is for you to send me feedback as to what "concerned" you assuming my picture was of some interest. If you end your reply with DNR, I will not reply, and to make it easy here are simply multiple choices for you:
A- I'm not in Loveland yet so why bother
B- Turned off by the animal project
C- Decided there would be any chemistry.
D- Answering "sometimes" to drug use (99% 420).
E- A few of the above!
F- I get an "F" on what I wrote in my profile info!
Thanks; we are all here trying our best so I would really appreciate the feedback and as I said, if you end with DNR I will just read to learn and will not reply....don't let this deal go down!