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22 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 24
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
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I am not really a fan of the dating site format. It is incredibly difficult to sum up a person with convenient little essays in a way that actually conveys meaning, so I am going to try to give you the need to knows:

I am genderfluid (she/her please) and pansexual. I am generally more attracted to feminine people, but I think the boxes that people put each other in are weird and I don't think that behaviour is binary or that gender is anything but a social construct. I consider myself an equalist.

I am polyamorous and currently seeing someone. They have a primary. Read: I have lots and lots of time for you, and I will do everything in my power to make you feel both appreciated and wanted if we end up together. I have far too much love for any one person.

I am a person who is very passionate about everything that I do. I either commit myself wholly or not at all.

I am mostly looking for new connections and to broaden my horizons as a whole, whether that brings new friends, romance, or both.

I am much more of a pub/board game + wine kind of person than a club type. I prefer smaller groups of engaged individuals rather than large parties. You can find me at Monopolatte on Monday nights, and The Cock and Lion for Karaoke on Thursdays and Saturdays. Disclaimer: I do not have 100% attendance.

I am in love with the Ottawa burlesque scene. My stage name is Faraday Kage and I will be doing my first act soon. I am at every Evening of Sin which is a twice monthly show at the Rainbow Bistro.

I am a lover of music, gaming, people, places, and above all, learning. I try to take in as much as I can. I hope to travel the world and eventually the universe.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm almost done being a student, and that's kind of scary! I have a lot of ideas for what I want to do with my life, and I guess 'ambitious' is a good word for me. I know I want to travel, and I know that I want to do some good. That sounds really cheesy, oh well.

I've just finished a BSc in Biomedical Science, with honours!
I’m really good at
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problem solving, mystery solving, developing extremely thorough plans for scenarios that will never actually happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am cute as hell and not sarcastic at ALL.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- George R. R. Martin
- Guy Gavriel Kay
- Herbert
- Dickens
- Wells
- Asimov
- Sagan
- Hawking


- Free to Play
- Moulin Rouge
- Les Miz
- Almost Famous
- Across the Universe
- V for Vendetta
- Once
- Memento
- Fight Club
- Her
- Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog
- Repo! The Genetic Opera
- The Perks of Being a Wallflower
- Most thrillers and musicals.
- Superhero movies, like damn.
- Many many more. I'll add more later.

Music: - I got my Fleetwood Mac, I could get high every day, but I'd be sleepy, OCD, and paranoid.


- Game of Thrones
- Heroes
- Firefly
- Turn: Washington's Spies
- Mad Men
- Dr. Who
- The Walking Dead
- Dexter
- Breaking Bad
- Archer
- Veronica Mars (It's a guilty pleasure.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Philosophy, gaming, books, politics, friends, and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to take over the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to a pool bar for drinks with friends,
or writing music at home,
or studying because holy shit this studenty thing is hard,
or on an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd really, REALLY like to make it as a hip-hop artist.
You should message me if
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you desperately want to travel the universe, even if it's just in our heads.