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TopTwink

20 / M / gay / Available

Rochester, New York

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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I am Protective, Artistic, and Playful.

My Self-Summary

Slightly a Mystery?
What can I say, I am a very relaxed guy except when things aren't going well romantically.
I'm a HUGE romantic, I love all the cliché and simple things that love, or romance can bring.

Long walks on the beach, a park, or the city deep in the night. Planning an outing to some other place, staying in a hotel during travel, sleeping in with each other, cuddling, snuggling, rainy day couch protecting session, being together, having each others back. All the things that show what some might call sappy feelings, to me they are treasures, memories, love.

Adventurous and in the moment more then any other time, I usually just want things to be well. I am naturally inclined to protect who is with me, whether friends or lover.
I do enjoy feeling wanted and as if I'm needed in a relationship, if I don't then I do my best to make things work, and find out how to help the other side of me work things out.
I'm a listener, I am always there for people, but sometimes I wish I didn't put people before myself all the time.

What I’m doing with my life

To be honest? Not much... having no security in my life now, I can't find the confidence to move on, but I'm working on plans to change that.

I’m really good at

For myself to say that I'm really good at something seems a bit presumptuous of me, as well as arrogant.

But if I was to offer something up to this, I'd say I'm good at helping and being a great friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

Not sure, I should ask.

The six things I could never do without

The basic necessities of living?

Food, Water, Oxygen, Warmth, Love, Art, People.

Oh... seven things. Eh whatevs.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future and how to fix it.

Love.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, then either going home to relax and draw, or if I'm invited out I go out to a club/friends place.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Will come back to that.

You should message me if

You want:
A good friend.
Someone to talk to.
Or the usual things I suppose?