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22 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:00pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"The track I'm running on
Won't be the same when I turn back
It's useless to follow it straight
I'll return to another place
I circled around but the sky changes
Yesterday I was a child
I'm a man now
The world's a strange place
And the rose among the roses
Doesn't resemble another rose."
-Robert Desnos

I've slowed down recently. I'm currently just trying to find a balance between work, my romantic relationships, family and friends. It's a little overwhelming.

I enjoy going out to do things (movie, food, shows, clubs) Hiking, board games, cooking, crocheting, learning new languages, Ich spreche ein bisschen deutsch. I bike, I like sports, I read a fair amount. If any of this sounds fun let's be friends!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a lot, with what free time I have I like to keep up with friends, read, relearn the piano. My primary partner and I have fairly opposite and busy schedules so whenever we can get a few hours together that trumps everything else.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping a schedule, being social, critical thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My red lipstick, short hair.. I'm usually dressed inappropriately for any situation I'm in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Chuck Palahniuk, or Orson Scott Card, Edgar Allen Poe, or Terry Pratchett

Fight Club, The Mist, American Beauty, Solaris, Cabin Fever, Lord of the Rings.

The Walking Dead, Rupauls Drag Race, Breaking Bad, The L word, Simpson's, Invader Zim, Star Trek, Babylon 5, The Big Bang Theory, True Blood

The Dresden Dolls, Emilie Autumn, Aesthetic Perfection, Marilyn Manson, Orgy, She Wants Revenge, Abney Park, Placebo, Jack Off Jill, The Crystal Method,

Sushi, Italian, Salads, Pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, cats, my bed, sex, a to-do list, and make-up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, food, sex, world affairs, philosophy, psychology.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a show or bar, or working, or playing dnd. Depends on the friday I keep a strange schedule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well it's not terribly private but I live a poly/bdsm lifestyle. If you're unfamiliar or uncomfortable with either of those lifestyles, we shouldn't be friends. If you message me I expect you to be aware that I have multiple lovers.
You should message me if
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We have anything in common, you're a sensible happy adult who'd like to have an enjoyable relationship of any type with me. I do like mysterious, intelligent and sexually open queer poly people.