-I'm really 57 and changed my age to get included in searches up to 55. I look, act and feel like a 45 year old.
-I'll be in Florida soon.
-A note about distance. I have a ton of airline points and the ability to take time off whenever I want so if you are a distance from me please reconsider a long term relationship. I'm also on the verge of changes in my life which could include relocation.
I'm on this web site to see if I can find someone that has a mutual connection with me leading to my goal of a meaningful relationship. I'm not here to use this site for chatting. I see it only as a tool. If you are serious about meeting up in person after only a very few emails then please message me. I'd love to hear from you!
I am engaging, energetic and enthusiastic about life (most of the time).
I approach life from a position of wonderment and adventure. I yearn for greater experiences that allow me to connect with people, places, feelings, and ideas. What I'm missing is the presence of a partner to share this with.
I'm driven to get to the heart/truth of the matter, to fully understand it and my part in it even when it’s painful. I find pretence and subtext tiresome. I'm energized and love it when someone is open minded and emotionally brave and I strive to continue advancing in these areas. I work at being aware of my own issues so that I can chose to let them go and be fully present. Sometimes I’m excellent at it and sometimes I need some help. Either way I'm ready to hear respectful feedback and have developed the ability to laugh at my imperfections.
I am one of the bravest people I know. Not bungie jumping brave but the kind of brave that is wiling to look at how and why I resist. The kind of brave that is about making connection. All of this is based on the fact that life is short and if I'm to embrace my creative expression of self, grow, and contribute to my community then I'll need to move past these limitation.
I am an eternal seeker, looking for the deeper meaning within each moment.
I need someone who is emotionally open and willing and able to meet me. If you are emotionally guarded or defended please pass me by.
My two most favorite quotes:
I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
Fritz Perls, 1969
There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why... I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?
I am present, available, and thoughtful