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TotalBettie

34 Portland, OR Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:35pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who am I? I am not going to take this opportunity to get meta...
so I guess I will say...
I am good friend, a loyal partner, and a dedicated life explorer. I am a down to earth girly girl that enjoys a good bike ride, yoga, hiking water falls, eating raw ( not strictly), watching the sun rise and fall on the water, and choosing to look to the brighter side. I know what I like..but always want to find more things to like, love, and enjoy. On the converse I have been through enough to know what I don't like and remain unjaded by life's trials and tribulations. We all have to go through the challenges to appreciate the good stuff. And I do appreciate the good stuff...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After many years pounding the pavement of NYC to success, I traded it all in to pack my bags and head south and travel Central America and then made my way to southeast asia and indonesia. I'm now in Portland and working out the details of what's next... Many opportunities presented and decisions to be made ... That's what keeps life interesting... but in general - I love traveling places near and far, practicing yoga, trying new food spots, seeing music shows, theater of many stripes, outdoor activities..and indoor outdoor activities (rock climbing gym anyone?). Being fit is important to me so I make time to take care of myself...especially since I like eating so much!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at being silly. Dancing like no one is watching...even when they are. I am good at asking interesting questions and listening to the answers. I pride myself on being one of those people you can take anywhere.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
well, it is not what you look at ...it is what you see.... but I would say the first thing people notice about me my eyes and my smile. Once they start talking to me I would say they notice that I am interested and interesting and I am funny with a good sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Me Talk Pretty One Day, Just Kids, Devil in The White City, The Four Agreements
Movies: The Player, Soap Dish, Wonder Boys, Bowfinger, Tim Burton's Batman, Zoolander, Strangers on a Train, Sunset Blvd, Fame, Hedwig and the Angry Inch
Shows: (TV) Girls, Mad Men, Louie, Friday Night Lights, Twin Peaks, Twilight Zone, Six Feet Under (Theater) The Dreamer Examines His Pillow (Musical Theater) Book of Mormon, Wicked, The Drowsy Chaperone, Once
Music: Talking Heads, REM, Stevie Wonder, Gotye, The Faint, How to Dress Well, The Magnetic Fields, Santigold, Royksopp, Radiohead
Food: BLT Fish, Roberta's, L'asso, Dressler, M Shanghai Bistro, Fatty 'Cue, Momofuku, Tasty Hand Pulled Noodels, Shinobi Ramen, Iris Cafe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Real Love
My Friends/Family
Music
A place to call home
My glasses/contacts
Olives (what can I say ...i love um!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The places I want to go and the things I want to do...and then I go do them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really depends... dinner with friends, social events, hanging with friends, singing Karaoke ... and sometimes I just want to do my laundry and hit the pillow
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am a good girl who pretends to be bad...but only sometimes.
You should message me if
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you want to.....
show me what you love about Portland. Teach me how to get dirty in the garden. cook a delicious healthy meal together. take a long bike ride. go rock climbing. dance to live music. sing karaoke at the top of your lungs. watch the sunset and marvel at how beautiful the world can be if you just stop and take a breath....

Also, if you have a deep love for Costa Rica and dream of spending part of your year there...

or maybe you have a better idea? I'm open