Second, if you want to chat with me, please don't start off by asking me things like, "Where in Tucson do you live?" or "What are the cross streets closest to your house?" Why would I ever disclose that information to a stranger? It makes me think one of two things: 1) You don't have a car so you're trying to figure out if I am within walking distance or 2) you're a creeper planning to come to my house in the middle of the night. As long as you live in Tucson and we have stuff in common, I'm willing to drive anywhere in this city to meet you. Where I live is irrelevant.
Third, I do have pretty feet. However, I am not on here to satisfy your creepy foot fetish. I cannot believe the number of dudes who have asked about my feet. Fetishes can be cool (I guess) but enough with the questions about my feet!
Oh, and if you think it's cute to send me a message asking me where I live like the other 10 guys that have, go ahead. I'll just add you to my "blocked user" list, which is getting close to 100 now. I'm not on here to play games and I cannot stand immaturity.
Okay, with that out of the way... I'm a single mother of a 14 year old son. I am truly blessed! I love my son more than ever but absolutely do not want to have any other children. This may sound silly to some but the thought of starting over with a baby is completely unappealing to me. It has been amazing watching my son grow up and I enjoy every moment spent with him. I cannot imagine ever loving another child as much as I love him. So, if you're looking for someone to settle down with AND have children in the future, I am definitely NOT that woman.
I am a hard-worker and have been successful in my career. I take my job very seriously and expect you to do the same. I'm not interested in meeting someone who doesn't value their job.
Goals are extremely important to me. I want to meet someone who has goals and will commit to accomplishing them. I am attracted to men who are ambitious and driven.
I rarely go out on a week night. On the weekends my favorite thing to do is go to the movies. I usually go alone but sometimes it's fun to go with a friend, especially if it's a horror flick.
Exercise is a very important part of my life/daily routine. The older I get, the stronger I have become both physically and mentally. I look forward to going to the gym every morning. I know at some point my body will naturally not be able to run the way I can run now or lift as heavy a weight as I can now so I am going to do as much as I can while I can.
My last relationship ended four years ago. After that I pretty much gave up on love. I've spent the last few years reflecting and discovering who I truly am. What I have realized is that I am someone who is EXTREMELY independent. I work hard for everything I have and for everything my son needs (and wants). I would never expect a man to take care of me (us) financially. It's important to me that I have my own space. I've never even lived with a man before. I like my privacy and my alone time. However, I am willing to give love (or whatever) another shot.
I'm a huge 80's fanatic! I love the music, the movies, the fashion! I am the ultimate Corey Haim fan. I have his autograph tattooed on my left wrist and I get a tattoo each year as a tribute to him. Die-hard 80's fan right here!
Speaking of tattoos... I have ten so far with many more in my future. I work for a VERY conservative organization so I haven't started on my sleeves... yet. I'm just not ready to commit myself to long-sleeved shirts for work. But the day's coming! I love ink!
I am a cat-lover to the max! I must admit that I am not very good around dogs. I get extremely nervous and just have never seemed to be able to warm up around them. I have one cat - well, he's still a kitten. His name is Captain Cheddar and he is awesome!