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49 Santa Rosa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:44pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm looking for a traditional relationship. No multiple partners or open relationships allowed in my plans. I am a very attentive partner and don't want to share. It may sound silly but I'm looking for a woman with a particular age and birthmonth as well as the elusive attraction factor. Then after that, the attraction has to be mutual. No problem...
I am happy to do most anything for fun. Preferably, it's low stress and relaxing, as opposed to my work life which is fast paced and hectic.
I often wonder about this woman who is right for me. What does she look like? How old is she? How does she make me feel? Where is she right now?
I have been described as self-deprecating and funny. Those are pluses in my book. I will say that I am not a traditionally handsome man.
I tend to aim high once it comes to picking a partner. Maybe a bit too high, considering my facial characteristics, but who's to say I can't truly have a better half.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising my kids the best I can. I have them most of the time. I work regular hours. I have most weekends available for good times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Forgetting names? Oh let me say something positive. McGivering? is that a word? aka Being highly inventive in the times of desperation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like somebody they saw before. (Hell, I don't know. But I heard this comment more than once)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like kids movies and silly stuff. James Bond movies. National Lampoons Vacation, and other comedies get a big thumbs up. Sci-fi is cool too. I take life too seriously to spend my off time watching heavy drama.
Don't watch TV.
Listen to Pandora so it could be anything. I like new hits. Not into rap, but I like R&B. I'm sure there are a zillion music genres to describe what I like and don't like, and even then there would be exceptions. Mostly I'm a fan of a particular song more so than the artist. So one hit wonders and obscure songs are what I like.
Mexican food is a staple, as are Kefir and Blueberry B Superfood.
Celery with hummus
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hope for love
My dirty mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
finding a girlfriend
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Movie night with the kids at home with lots of buttered or seasoned popcorn and sodas.
You should message me if
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...I message you first.