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49 • Santa Rosa, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–56
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:30pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I am happy to do most anything for fun. Preferably, it's low stress and relaxing, as opposed to my work life which is fast paced and hectic.
I often wonder about this woman who is right for me. What does she look like? How old is she? How does she make me feel? Where is she right now?
I have been described as self-deprecating and funny. Those are pluses in my book. I will say that I am not a traditionally handsome man though. My butt is too tiny. I refer to it as android buttocks, or something you'd see on a Ken doll. I had a girlfriend who used to refer to me as "tiny hiney"
Here's a little story I'll share. When I was in elementary school we had a silhouette project where the teacher drew our side profile silhouettes on black construction paper and cut them out. I did not recognize mine. I kept trying to take another boy's silhouette who had a typical handsome boy profile. When I was corrected and handed mine, I was shocked. It changed my concept of my self and confused me. Sad but true.
My son now has the typical handsome boy profile that I remember thinking was my own. Amen.
I know there was a short series on TV about cosmetic makeovers, in which a man with my facial characteristics ended up getting complete facial reconstructive surgery and came out looking like a Kennedy. That's so sad. Is that what I'm expected to do? In the name of love?
I tend to aim high once it comes to picking a partner. Maybe a bit too high, considering my facial characteristics, but who's to say I can't truly have a better half.
Don't watch TV.
Listen to Pandora so it could be anything. I like new hits. Not into rap, but I like R&B. I'm sure there are a zillion music genres to describe what I like and don't like, and even then there would be exceptions. Mostly I'm a fan of a particular song more so than the artist. So one hit wonders and obscure songs are what I like.
Mexican food is a staple, as are Kefir and Blueberry B Superfood.
Celery with hummus
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