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35 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:07pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My humor is dry; my speech, slow as Southern molasses; and my patience, bountiful. Although my practice varies over time, Judaism is a big part of my life. I'm lucky to have family in town and we're very close. When people first meet me, they sometimes think that I'm oh-so-serious but as they get to know me they quickly learn that I'm a huge goofball. I'm a lefty (politically) and devote a lot of my time to helping working people raise their voices. I care tremendously about my work, but the heart of my heart is my family - both the family I am lucky enough to have been given and those close friends whose affection over the years has made us kin.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a workers' rights lawyer by day (and sometimes by night). I feel very fortunate to advocate on behalf of people struggling to improve the conditions that affect their daily lives. When not fighting for workers, I can usually be found playing squash, running (my newest form of meditation), hanging out with my adorable niece and nephew, biking, enjoying my neighborhood farmer's market, or cooking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
understanding my own emotional life and being in tune with the emotional needs of others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are generally incorrect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The New Jim Crow (Michelle Alexander) is far and away the best book I've read in years. Other things that have left their mark on me include A Random Family, Whitewashing Race, Middlesex, Myth and Measurement, Tao Te Ching, The Sense of an Ending.

TV: Masters of Sex, Homeland, The Sing-Off, Top Chef, the Good Wife.

Radio: RadioLab, Democracy Now, This American Life, Savage Love, the Moth, iScotusNow (cuz I'm cool like that).

Music: Regina Spektor, Shostakovich quartets, Charles Mingus, and lots in between.

Food: I know my way around the kitchen and love cooking for friends and sharing a meal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In addition to the usual (friends and family), I'll go with squash (the sport), butternut squash (the vegetable), work I believe in, downtime, the space between cynical critique and guileless hope, and an awareness of the many blessings in this world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
economic inequality and how to be a good ally in our racist and sexist world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
celebrating Shabbat or otherwise unwinding from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite all my blustering about workers' rights, I'm still far more bourgeois* than most of my friends.

*Wanted to write the word that sounds like boozhy, but not sure how to spell it.
You should message me if
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you're genuinely kind and looking for the same, but you're also sassy and can keep me on my toes; you know who you are and how you like to navigate this wacky, wonderful, broken world; you agree that the job of repairing the world is not yours alone to complete but neither can you shirk from it; and, while mediating that tension, you can laugh at yourself and the absurdity of it all.