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Toysconover

29 F Mountain View, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 14
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Good hell, where to begin.

Will you please direct your attention to the 'You should Message me if' section before you progress further.

I am a strange individual, I am into rather unconventional things- from ideals to my opinion of morality to propriety, to the relationships I have with others. I take pleasure in what is socially considered strange or in some cases wrong.

My view of myself is very gray- I am a bad person that does good things and a good person that does bad things. I love the dark just as much as the light. I am just as likely to be a silly witty goofnut as I am to be a deep and objective philosopher. Meh, such is life.

I am an Eclectic Poly-Theist Witch. I practice much from many pantheons and practices, and am quite happy that way. I am most aligned with Vodun and Hogun, Norse tradition, and Greek. Magically I am most involved with Hoodoo, folk magic, a touch of Romany Gypsy work (very long story), Necromancy (in the traditional sense of communicating with the dead), green magic, and...others. At this juncture in my life, I am deeply engrossed in Blood Sorcery of what could be called " a dark nature". My sense of justice is mine, true, but I do not act rashly nor without deep consideration.
My mother is Kali Ma. Used to be terrified of her growing up, avoided the hell out of her till I reached the age of experience and reason.

* A quick note in the vein of messaging- Please do not send me a single line of text that possesses no substance. Compliments and flattery are all good and well, but let us be realistic: I am female. Just based on my gender/sex alone I will be bombarded by men hopeful of an encounter or seeking to say something to feel powerful somehow. (Yes, I realize this may seem unfair to the general masses, but it has proven to be a constant in my experience).
That being said, I am more interested in what is ~interesting~ than what is flattering. Give me a taste of who you are delivered with respect and courtesy, and I shall do the same lovelies.

What am I looking for...
Connection.

I am polyamorous, and have multiple partners that I enjoy meaningful relationships with. (Make no mistake-everyone knows about one another and have amiable friendships-we are a family). I am a multifaceted and multilayered being- I understand and accept that no one person will ever be a complete reflection of myself...I am looking for...

Intelligence. I am a social scientist of sorts, my own breed of philosopher, and decently read. I need more conversation in my life that is not predictable; most humans on the middle class horizon (which is where most of us are), have a statistical IQ number of 79, would rather watch than read, game than think, laugh than ponder, have a ~very~ limited vocabulary, and don't care to progress. No thank you.

Art/Creativity (an interest in it, knowledge of it, or empathy for it). I cannot go a day with out creating something; I feel sick, lost or crazed if I go any longer than 5 days sans creation. Poetry, storytelling, painting, sketching, writing, singing, jewelry crafting, costuming,theater,special effects, sigil sketching...I must. I need to share that. Whether with one that appreciates it or also creates matters little- as long as they understand its gravity in my universe.

Physical/Material Aesthetic Harmony. I am a very comfortable extrovert, entertainer and performer. I need others that can not only appear to belong with me, but also be such that we compliment one another aesthetically. I want to have pride not only in myself, but also the presentation of my consort.

Emotional Complexity. I am fucked. Excuse the coarse language, but it is true. I am a high functioning "crazy person", MDBP type 2, and one afflicted with MPD. My thoughts, feelings, and psycho-emotional mental states are...different from most. I expend a near righteous amount of energy keeping control and sanity, but at times I do break. I need someone that can be objective and patient, as well as try to understand; and if understanding is not possible, accept things as they are.
I realize this may unnerve you...We shall see. If I have disquieted you and scared you off- I regret nothing.

Sexual/Kink Compatibility...discussion for another time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have recently climbed out of the depths of a hellish nightmare of a life, and am rediscovering what it is I want and want to be while make some sort of freakish peace with what I already am.

What am I doing? Dedicating my life to understanding and how to evolve, learning about what is possible and probable, giving others what they are due ( in all possible ways that that can be construed), exploring this bizarre idea of being a model, and finding as much excitement as possible everyday with the help of serendipity.

...And most importantly, finding that fine line between not taking things too seriously and being responsible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Damn near anything artistic- singing, costuming, sculpting, painting, jewelry making, general crafting, design of many sorts, sketching...the list goes on.

Perhaps a little TMI, but I am exceptional at reading others and helping open people up to themselves and things...they may feel insecure about. I am ~very~ open, and love taking others on the journey of self exploration. Maybe this will scare some of you off, maybe not, it is simply the truth.

I am exceedingly patient. Being equitable and truly understanding someone are important skills of mine, well, at least to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My demeanor. I am self confident, assertive and forward while being friendly, compassionate and approachable...And I am pretty damn witty if I do say so myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- anything by Dean Koontz. Love old world poetry, anything to do with traditional Fairytales, Fantasy, Sci Fi, Thrillers, and I definately love me some Horror.

Movies- Horror, Gore, Thriller, Action, Fantasy, Sci Fi...Anything that is not chick flicks or inspirational sports films.

Music- Tool, APC, Puscifer, Deftones, Apocalyptica, Emilie Autumn, Flogging Molly, Suicide Commando, Drop Kick Murphys, Die Antword, Wolfsheim, VNV Nation, Gotya, The Cure, Pantera, Bach, Mozart, Black Sabbath, Nirvana and too much else to list.

Food- Love the stuff. Just can't do spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Sex
My art
Chocolate
My Knife
Corsets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Empathy, the human psyche, sexuality, costuming, and the people I care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My life is fairly spontanious. I could be going to an abandoned Ghost town, a BDSM club, crafting, sleeping, writing, at a bar or just chilling with friends. *Shrugs*
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was a professional Domme for 6 years, and quit because it was ruining something I love. So now I am in the scene just recreationally. I am a Dom sadomasochist, and if that bothers you, look elsewhere. Do not pester me with annoying questions; if you are genuinely curious and want to learn and know for yourself, do ask, but for your sake don't be an insipid dolt about it.

For those of you that know what it is, my FL account is Just_Toy.

**I am only going to say this once- Boys, NO, I AM NOT A SUB. NOT ON A FIRST MEETING. NOT EVER. I on occasion switch, but usually only for close friends and some women. So boys, quite seriously and truly- fucking stop it. You are harshing my mellow**

Just because I am this kinky, does not mean that is all I am. I can enjoy a vanilla setting and relationship as well, and my interactions with others do not require constant kink...though I do enjoy it immensely.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Hell, if you are curious and interesting yourself.

But so help me Gods if you are just contacting me for meaningless sex. You will be ignored and abhorred, and I will be put into the foulest of moods. THOSE LOOKING FOR A QUICK FUCK, look elsewhere, just because I am sexual does not mean I am easy nor interested in such a trivial and mundane thing. Go make out with the garbage disposal, it will be more satisfying.