I always wear leather, boots and jeans all year round.
Old man bars or biker bars are my type of bars. I prefer a lounge over a club, and a vacation at a cabin in the woods is my ideal r&r.
A drink and a walk is fine with me over a long night with a movie and a show. As long as we get along its fine. How can we learn about each other over a movie/show?
As for everything else...everything has something good out of it. As well as bad. That being said, I try and find the good in everything before I flat out say it's time to give up.