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64 Santa Monica, CA Man


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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm realistic and optimistic.... independent, but respectful-- loyal; heartfelt and sometimes funny. I'm looking for a woman who can appreciate the same,



Compassion for others a +.

I work in the social services field where I've been for seven years, and I study writing at UCLA. I've done a lot of things in life as far as work and particularly liked being a sports writer, a news writer, and radio journalist; a book seller at the "mystical' Bodhi Tree, and being a peace and justice activist.
My interests include people and animals, and all living things.

I've traveled some; walked cities of Tokyo, Managua, hitchhiked to Skopje after walking Athens; taken a train in Winter to Glasgow from London, walked Rio, Vienna, London, Mexico, Zurich, Bern, Tel Aviv, and Dubrovnik. Been in much of the US and some of the South. I'm from Omaha.

I travel by light rail, Amtrak, walking, bus, bicycle, or car; locally--from Chinatown to Ventura, from the Anza to Santa Monica. (Once I took public transportation back from Anza Borrego desert, to prove to myself it could be done - hint: LA via San Diego will get you home).

Am decidedly left wing, but as someone once said--I'm not necessarily trying to change the world, but am more interested trying to keep it from changing me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I enjoy writing, working, going out with friends, yoga and working out....going to Franklin Canyon, sometimes camping in the desert and forest, driving to Santa Barbara or San Luis-- to the Redwoods or a national park.I like to grow cactus, and have a small porch of cacti.
Sometimes I grow edibles.

Welcome little Butternut, my new rescue dog, pictured in the photo section here.

I've managed small non-profits in the past. Now, I'm working for a fine local non-profit which serves the homeless and low income population. I make time to read, walk, go to movies, sometimes dine out. I like radio, not commercial TV.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at: knowing what direction I'm walking,
popping popcorn in a pan, and writing letters to the editor.

I love to cook at home: my stir fry, and soups are a favorite-- organic everything, including steamed vegetables. When I go out, I like LA's Philippe's, Le Saigon - in WLA, and Labels and Nicks, the latter two both on Pico.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm not looking into my phone while walking down the street.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Care of the Soul, Moore,
The Girl in the Road, Monica Byrne,
Electroboy, by Andy Behrman,
One Country, Ali Abunimah,
Cooked, Michael Pollan; Bet the Farm-How Food Stopped Being Food (Kaufman),
Quiet, the Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking (Susan Cain),
The God Delusion (Dawkins),
Eaarth (McKibben),
Incognito (Eagleman)-about neuroscience,
Michner's Sports in America,
The Good Society,
The Alphabet Versus the Goddess, and Art and Physics (both Schlain),
and the tiny book-Don't Sweat the Small Stuff-It's All Small Stuff.

Ralph Nader,
Edward Snowden, Thomas Drake, Glenn Greenwald, and Laura Poitras--Chris Hedges, Ali Abunimah,
Prof. Richard Wolff, Prof. Michael Parenti, Cornell West, Barbara Ehrenreich, Bill Moyers, Tariq Ali, Vandana Shiva, Arundhati Roy, Dorothy Day, Pema Chodron, Robert Bly, and Tich Nhat Hahn, and Roy of Hollywood.

Movies/TV: CITIZENFOUR, Frontline, Inside Llewyin Davis, All Is Lost, Fed Up, The Square, CAPITAL, 20 Feet From Stardom, Dirty Wars, The Central Park Five, Wings of Desire, Duck Soup, Five Broken Cameras, Oh Brother Where Art Tho, Searching for Sugarman, The Gatekeepers, and Young Frankenstein.

Nanci Griffith, Gil Scott Heron,
Leonard Cohen, Rodriguez, Patti Smith, Joan Baez,
Ani DiFranco, Neil Young, Ozomatli, Aretha Franklin, Steve Earl,
Joe Cocker, the Felice Brothers, Moby, Phil Collins, Bjork, Nanci Griffith, Richie Havens, Luka Bloom, Cat Yusuf Stevens, Enya,
Bruce Cockburn,
....and classical.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* quiet at sunrise
* rain
* my dog
* quality socks
* organic strawberries--and rye from Labels
* Democracy Now! (radio)

Things I could do without:

* multitasking
* TV
* The OkC phrase: "People say I look younger than I am...."
* the !%
* the un-ending American wars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
..... “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is
finally better than your dreams.”
---Dr. Seuss
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning Saturday's bike ride to the farmer's market, a Sunday movie, and cooking. Writing, reading, editing--avoiding driving in Friday LA traffic. Hanging out with Butternut, the dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nebraska football rocks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. can appreciate slowing down,
you have a social conscience, or, hey-- both.

.....clever, funny, insightful....a plus.

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