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TraumaOfTheReal

26 F Leicester, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:07pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Often
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am currently ONLY looking for friendship on here fyi :)

If you send me a message that says "Hi how are you?" "What you been upto?" or any other mundane and uninteresting question then I will ignore you, sorry but I am not going out of my way to start a conversation with you if you don't bother first :)

"I could never trust anyone who's well adjusted to a sick society.” Andrea Gibson

Okay.. let's start with the labelling (which I actually hate but it seems necessary) as that seems to give people an idea of who I am pretty quick.

I often class myself as an "anarchist" (I am anti-rules and rulers in short) total fuckin hippy, absurdist, existentialist, stoner, gamer and want to find people like me, so if you're closed minded and enjoy "going out drinking with the lads" you most likely won't get a reply, or if you catch me on an especially depressive day, you'll get a gob full.. you have been warned :P If you enjoy modern western society and are not sick of the mundane and monotonous pace of current human culture then I doubt we'll get on considering I am pretty sick of everything around me tbh, can't even go to a supermarket (which unfortunately is necessary evil atm) without constantly ranting about the plethora useless shit around me. ^_^

I am a very honest and blunt person (so don't take it personally if I am blunt with you!) I do full disclosure with everyone I intend to get to know, so I expect you to do the same if you want to know me. Beating around the bush and lying are a waste of time and I would always rather know the truth than being told what ppl think I want to hear. :)

I am an artist by trade, I paint abstract/naive/pop art pieces often focussing on things that don't fit in, cityscapes and some more subversive concepts too. You can see my art and like my page here www.facebook.com/littleleighvis and buy prints here http://littleleighvisual.tictail.com/ which I'd super appreciate as I am poor as fuck atm ^_^

I am interested in discussing the universe (quantum mechanics, astrophysics, spacetime etc) philosophical concepts such as morality (and the way it has evolved in conscious beings) the detached nature of modern western society.. mostly I like discussing humans from a zoological perspective, I do this a lot. :) I also love contemplating the future in relation to science fiction and dystopian ideas.

If you're interested in the same shows, music or anything else like that then feel free to msg me to chat about that :)
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to save up enough cash through my art to buy a van to live in and travel to Bali.. there I will work at The Green School.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HD4bpztESWw enlighten, inspire and learn from children and other free-thinkers.

Attempting to write a comic book - I am looking for some students or anyone with a degree in certain fields such as physics (esp nuclear) politics, business, psychology.. pretty much anything you think might be useful to a politically/philosophically fuelled post-uptopian/post-apocalyptic story involving high technology and complex political systems. I am also on the lookout for artists to help with the book, I would like to do the backgrounds myself but would love to find an enthusiastic partner to work on drawing the characters. Any input at all would be appreciated :)

Constantly contemplating the absurdity of the universe, of morality, existence.

Playing SWTOR and other games :)

Painting, drawing, singing, laughing, playing the Ukulele.. trying to find people to jam, play games and hang with! :D
I’m really good at
Painting, singing, writing.. talking ^_^ debating, putting forth a logical argument. Making people feel better about themselves. Making people examine themselves and the world around them.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a smart arse and a cynic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies

THX 1138
Brazil
Fritz the Cat
Human Highway
Howl
Star Wars
Wayne's World
Withnail and I
The Triplets of Belleville
Heavy Metal
Cyborg 009
Marvel Movies
Cool World
Goodbye Lenin
Monty Python
The Nine Lives of Fritz the Cat
Studio Ghibli
A Room for Romeo Brass
Joint security Area
Repo Man
I Heart Huckabees
I'm a Cyborg, but it's OK
Perfect Blue
Spaceballs
Fight Club
Dead Man's Shoes
How to Get Ahead in Advertising

Books

Dune - Frank Herbert
Blasted - Sarah Kane
Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy "Trilogy"(including The Restaurant at the End of the Universe, Life the Universe and Everything, So Long, and Thanks for All the Fish and Mostly Harmless) - Douglas Adams
A Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood
The Mindbody Prescription - Dr. John Sarno
Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
How to Be Free - Tom Hodgkinson
1984 - George Orwell
Unlearn Your Pain - Dr. R. Shubiner
Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins
A Song of Ice and Fire Series - George R. R. Martin
The Tales of Dunk and Egg (ASOIAF) - George R.R Martin
The Hobbit - J. R. R. Tolkien
Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring The Two Towers, The Return of the King- J. R. R. Tolkien

Music

Devo
The Residents
Nirvana
Primus
Tiger Lillies
Birdengine
Meat Puppets
The Pentangle
Violent Femmes
DDT
Grails
Веня Д'ркин
Sparks
METRONOMY
тёплая трасса
Polysics
(the) Melvins
Django Reinhardt
Gomez
The Stone Roses
Bloodhound Gang
Soul Coughing
Zaz
Charles Aznavour
King Kurt
Sparks
The Mudhoney
Mindless Self Indulgence
Les Têtes Raides
John Frusciante
Precious Bryant
Ella Fitzgerald
Jacques Brel
Etta James
Nina Simone
The Beach Boys
Jessie Mae Hemphill
Marcy Playground
The Clash
Stray Cats
Canned Heat
Brian Setzer
Madeleine Peyroux
Sage Francis
Muddy Waters
System of a Down
Daft Punk
The Balfa Brothers
Greyscale
Queens of the Stone Age
BIRDY NAM NAM
Michael Jackson
Nouvelle Vague
The Pixies
Mad Caddies
Van Morisson
King Kurt
Pink Floyd
Reel Big Fish
Aesop Rock
Stuart Penman
Bob Dylan
Billie Holiday
The Polecats
Rage Against the Machine
Anti-Flag
Dinah Washington
Xploding Plastix
Belle & Sebastian
Sublime
Kyuss
Flipper
Hot Hot Heat
Tenacious D
Kings Of Leon
Bebop
Devendra Banhart

And many more! :P

Shows

South Park
Monster
Superjail!
Venture Brothers
Game of Thrones
Farscape
Battlestar Galactica
Paranoia Agent
Cowboy Bebop
Fringe
Stargate Universe
Stargate Atlantis
Full Metal Alchemist
The Marvelous Misadventures of Flapjack
Breaking Bad
Death Note
Caprica
Black Books
Ugly Americans
Futurama
Black Lagoon
Ergo Proxy
Monkey Dust
Pinky and the Brain
Ren and Stimpy
Courage the Cowardly Dog
Invader Zim
The Wonderful World of Gumball
Dexter's Laboratory
Regular Show
Wolverine and the X-Men
The Oblongs
Adult Swim UK
The Simpsons
The Avengers: Earth's Mightiest Heroes
Peep Show
Marvel animated universe
Dexter
Drop the Dead Donkey
Fawlty Towers
Bottom
Continuum
Firefly

Food

Cake, tomatoes, Mediterranean food, almost all raw vegetables, Marmite, cheese, seafood.. most things really. :)
The six things I could never do without
Food, water, air, shelter, the ability to make connections, the ability to think freely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The absurd nature of the universe. The cultural rituals of the human species.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting stoned in bed watching Cartoons, Sci Fi shows, movies, painting or playing PC games like SWTOR, Skyrim, Portal/2, Half Life/2.. varying puzzle games etc. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I suffer with depression and I am in chronic pain all over my body 24/7 which makes me pretty moody. I have some sort of personality disorder and am far more hostile with people than I really would like to be.

I switch between being a very cheerful, sociable and patient person to one who feels the urge to isolate themselves and has to work extremely hard to control violent and self harming urges. I am seeing a therapist and am soon to go into group therapy.

I suffer with "mindbody" disorder which causes me huge amounts of pain every day and affects my eating, sleeping and many other basic functions which I would be happy to explain in detail to anyone whom I felt I could trust. I have trust issues.

I'm not well basically - physically nor mentally.. I need a lot of patience and understanding from my friends.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 19–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You see the bigger picture... you'll know what I mean, if you know what I mean ;)