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48 Phoenix, AZ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
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Hi, Thanks for stopping by!

I hope everyone finds what you're looking for here & hopefully quality people to spend time with. It's a little tricky - as I'm sure many of you have experienced.

My usage of Ok Cupid?
I'll jump on occasionally if I get a message from someone who sparks an interest. Of course, Im still open to finding 'the right person for me', Im just a little tired of meeting people I have zero chemistry with.

I'm a rare bird, a mid-western, German, Irish girl who's looking for a ONE OF A KIND guy - someone great who wants someone just as great and is not willing to settle for someone less. I tell the truth and I speak my mind. I am a communicative, High Energy type A, an open minded extrovert, sociable & sensitive - Oh and also a HUGE DORK.

At 48, I don't act or look my age - I need the same kind of guy - who looks and feels young, playful & attractive for our ages.... A man whose got his emotional, mental, physical & career $hit together. I want to have FUN, be passionate, Love, laugh & explore the world with someone I can look over and smile at and thank God for!

Im a busy professional through the work week and a laid back and chill girl on the weekends.

What Im looking for is RARE, I know... But Im rare & Im I've got to believe it's possible. :)

I am HIGHLY SELECTIVE who I will date, text, and get to know from an online dating site. If you're the cream of the crop, then by all means, contact me. Also, Please, If you're going to contact me, don't lead with the SEX CARD. Yes, I'm a sexual person, I have bikini pics posted and I am flirty ....but for goodness sake, THAT'S PRIVATE I'm a lady first and foremost who only shares my sexuality with someone I know, trust and feel close to. (Shocker, I know) (That outta cut down on the mail I get).

You should message me if you /are/have:

1. Tall, Dark and Handsome
2. Fit
3. Great sense of humor, sense of playfulness and smiles generously
4. Young at heart
5. Excellent communication skills
6. Intelligent / Educated / Successful
7. Manners, considerate, kind, fair & can have a reciprocal
8. Positive attitude, In touch with your sensitive side, emotionally healthy and available
9. Free Spirited or at least can let others be free spirited around you
10. Want a one of a kind woman by your side, someone to laugh with, be active with, have fun with, be your biggest cheerleader, best friend and partner.
11. Enjoys the outdoors, adventure, desires and is available and can afford to travel, digs hanging out by the pool, cuddling, kissing and engaging in great conversation
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im Enjoying my life! Very passionately! Im a Stop & Smell the Roses kind of girl- I Love to laugh and Love to explore this beautiful planet of ours. Meeting new people & making a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating. Understanding. Loving others. Perceiving. Picking up on inuendos. Reading people and situations. Yoga. Playing the piano. My profession. Making people feel comfortable. Meeting new people. Having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, eyes, energy, body, and laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Eclectic tastes. Music, I like a bit of EVERYTHING:
My go to music is R&R = Rap & Reggae
I also like top 40, 90's, old school rock n roll...
See....Can't pin it down.

Movies, just about ANY are acceptable.

Im a veracious reader of non-fiction. Fiction feels like a waste of time. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Children
Unconditional Love
Burts Bees & Sunscreen
My Laptop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, Love & the pursuit of happiness. Where my next excursion is going to be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting my weekly 1 1/2 Hr Massage & Resting up from the long work week, going to bed whenever I want & sleeping in on my fave day of the week: Saturday!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Id like to fall in love again. Shhhhh
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know how to treat a woman kindly and be on top of managing your own issues.

Are you in touch with your emotions? Can you communicate? Are you honest? Can you appreciate a woman who is able to communicate?

I'd like to meet someone like myself; who's ATTRACTIVE but equally as NICE.

A Man with Emotional Integrity

My thoughts:

A man with emotional integrity - creates Trust.

A woman will feel emotionally safe with a man who is emotionally available, honest, trustworthy and authentic. These are emotional character strengths she can respect and admire in a man. A man of character and emotional depth is a man who knows who he is and likes himself. His love for himself is so strong he does not need to gain the acceptance of others by trying to be something he is not.

His strength is not physical so much as it is in the clarity of his mind and emotions. These are character strengths that a woman not only admires, but feels safe with. He is not a weak man that will bend to the whims of other people. She can trust him to be who he is. I describe this kind of man as having emotional integrity.