I hope everyone finds what you're looking for here & hopefully quality people to spend time with. It's a little tricky - as I'm sure many of you have experienced.
My usage of Ok Cupid?
I'll jump on occasionally if I get a message from someone who sparks an interest. Of course, Im still open to finding 'the right person for me', Im just a little tired of meeting people I have zero chemistry with.
I'm a rare bird, a mid-western, German, Irish girl who's looking for a ONE OF A KIND guy - someone great who wants someone just as great and is not willing to settle for someone less. I tell the truth and I speak my mind. I am a communicative, High Energy type A, an open minded extrovert, sociable & sensitive - Oh and also a HUGE DORK.
At 48, I don't act or look my age - I need the same kind of guy - who looks and feels young, playful & attractive for our ages.... A man whose got his emotional, mental, physical & career $hit together. I want to have FUN, be passionate, Love, laugh & explore the world with someone I can look over and smile at and thank God for!
Im a busy professional through the work week and a laid back and chill girl on the weekends.
What Im looking for is RARE, I know... But Im rare & Im single...so I've got to believe it's possible. :)
I am HIGHLY SELECTIVE who I will date, text, and get to know from an online dating site. If you're the cream of the crop, then by all means, contact me. Also, Please, If you're going to contact me, don't lead with the SEX CARD. Yes, I'm a sexual person, I have bikini pics posted and I am flirty ....but for goodness sake, THAT'S PRIVATE I'm a lady first and foremost who only shares my sexuality with someone I know, trust and feel close to. (Shocker, I know) (That outta cut down on the mail I get).
You should message me if you /are/have:
1. Tall, Dark and Handsome
3. Great sense of humor, sense of playfulness and smiles generously
4. Young at heart
5. Excellent communication skills
6. Intelligent / Educated / Successful
7. Manners, considerate, kind, fair & can have a reciprocal
8. Positive attitude, In touch with your sensitive side, emotionally healthy and available
9. Free Spirited or at least can let others be free spirited around you
10. Want a one of a kind woman by your side, someone to laugh with, be active with, have fun with, be your biggest cheerleader, best friend and partner.
11. Enjoys the outdoors, adventure, desires and is available and can afford to travel, digs hanging out by the pool, cuddling, kissing and engaging in great conversation