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57 Larkspur, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:24pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A subtle glance, warm soulful smile, sparkling eyes that light up a room, all so sublime and speaks way beyond all these words...

I am feeling in this sweet, easy place of taking things slow. Interested in meeting a very romantic, special someone to explore and share eclectic adventures, fun, simple pleasures, laughter~friends first (!) taking our time, being open and appreciative of each other feels like a good start~over time building trust, discovering mutual desires, interests, goals, shared values, emotional availability, intimacy, sensual touch, tenderness, honesty, kindness, thoughtfulness balance, as well as, authentic communication and deep soulful connecting are all very important to me. Ultimately, I'm looking to invest in something true and lasting~a committed, long-term relationship where passion thrives in all we share and we mutually challenge, inspire, support and bring out the best in each other. Surprise me!

More About Me ~

I am intelligent, wise, thoughtful, affectionate, sensitive, deeply nurturing, heartfelt & complex + intense, very loving, soulful & passionate. Also, I’m a mother of a grown daughter whom I love very much. Self-assured, with both feet on the ground, resourceful, can do or be anything that I set my mind to. Have always been absorbed in creative and artistic endeavors (it feeds and adds balance to my life, my soul), as well as, independent, self-sustaining & entrepreneurial & love my profession that I’ve been privileged to do for the past 26 years, making a difference in peoples lives. I’m kind, spirited, playful~savoring the joy & sweetness in the simplest of moments. Enjoy being active as much as relaxing & being still. And always find time for quiet reflection. Insatiably curious (willing to play outside the box), always seeking, learning & hunger for growth. I live from a deeply committed, soulful place for those I love, family, friends and my work as well as, my community through volunteering.

Oh...gourmet cooking & sharing it (I so love this!!), and arranging my fresh flowers, baking my homemade bread to share with others, celebrating the changing of seasons (Mmmm) & with such delight, spoiling my two adorable French Bulldogs (impish little rascals that always warm my heart & make me smile)! Creating a nurturing conscious space of comfort, warmth & beauty in my home. Sharing appreciation, tenderness, reveling in thought, reflection and play...intellectual banter, we both love the arts, music and literature and we savor those special moments when we are laying back and relaxing...simply being or steeped in some deep & meaningful conversations (or just quietly snuggling~Mmmm) in front of a warm, cozy fire...this is what warms my heart and soul.

Courageously living my truth, committed to openness & integrity…even when it hurts or may even break my heart.

Living from passion is truly the fire that inspires it ALL for me~my inner light that reminds me to always keep trusting, loving and moving towards my True North.

I'm feeling open for love and romance, now~to sharing this adventure and the many uncharted explorations of heart, body, mind, soul yet to come...

Perhaps With You ~

You are a warm, wise, inquisitive soul also fun, a good communicator, very romantic, thoughtful, lives from integrity, honest, emotionally available, looking for ONE special woman (not several!!) to explore life together. You have a calm, grounded, yet excited outlook on life & live with intention & quiet verve & you love to laugh & play! You are physically active, take care or your well-being/health: body, mind, heart, spirit & soul & have some edge & style & are unafraid to show it. You have a creative, artistic spirit, emotional maturity & are open, loyal, passionate, loving, romantic, kind & your word sacred. You possess a thoughtful confidence & are not intimidated by my strengths. Prefers the road less traveled. Lives consciously & can stay up all night with me doing whatever inspires our passions till the sun comes up whenever the mood strikes. Oh & can order from the wine list!! And the willingness to teach me about your passions, your hungers, your strengths, your weaknesses, your shadows & your fears & is someone I can trust & be my best friend & partner. Inspires me to laugh at your jokes? And you know how to use levity to get through life's BS. Just knows how to firmly embrace me, and when to playfully tease me...and especially when to really listen to me, always (as I would you) when things are going wonderfully or when times are challenging, feeling sensitive or vulnerable (in those tender moments a warm silent hug can feel like heaven)! I'm looking for a soulful, brave and courageous man...who is finally ready and willing to follow his heart, his intuition & passions this time around...having learned the wisdom to know the difference and what truly matters, now. Inspire me!

"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller“
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Savoring every moment...and appreciating the joy, mystery and adventure of it all!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying life, exploring the endless possibilities of fun, sharing, caring, openness, nurturing, warmth, intimacy, impassioned multi-depths of communication and connection (even the realms beyond words)...and inspiring playfulness, intellectual and eclectic conversations, appreciation, thoughtfulness, being intuitive, resourceful, seeing & creating beauty...the rest is up for you to discover...

"When nothing is sure, everything is possible" ~ Margaret Drabble
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Perhaps my warm (even playful) or...if we ever meet...why don't you tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Interesting & Inspirational, mostly (and from time to time a great mystery thriller while traveling is fun, as well)!
I am a voracious reader...usually reading 4-5 books at a time. Recently read several books by Pema Chodron, also, currently in the midst of (and loving them): "Tiny Beautiful Things~Advice On Love and Life From Dear Sugar" by Cheryl Strayed, "Embracing Our Selves" by Hal and Sidra Stone PhD's, "The Buddha's Brain" by Rick Hanson, "The Start-Up Of You" by Reid Hoffman, "Proof Of Heaven" by Eben Alexander III, M.D., "Blink...The Power Of Thinking Without Thinking" by Malcolm Gladwell..."A Most Dangerous Method: The Story of Jung, Freud, and Sabina Spielrein" by John Kerr, "The Now Effect" by Elisha Goldstein and many more.

I LOVE Poetry~Especially: Rumi & David Whyte

Movies: That provoke and inspire my intellect, heart, soul, psyche, and my senses...from love to tears! Most Recently: "Life Of Pi"...What a stunningly, beautiful movie and mythical story!

Arts: Galleries, Theater, Ballet, Opera...
Artists who want to create and play with me amidst earthy paints and clay...late at night with music hypnotically chanting to us...through the studio 'til dawn! Or be out in nature with me doing photography...such intricate beauty, light and magic to capture!

Music: From Classical, Baroque, Jazz, Torch, Contemporary, Pop, house (working out) and sometimes, even more current country...(I have eclectic tastes for many things!!) Also, Live/local jazz & concerts...especially fun outdoor concerts in the wine country.

Fresh, organic foods, gourmet cooking...preparing & sharing it!

Dining out: I really love the simple and casual local cafe's and just needs to be good food! For getting dressed places are Zuni Cafe, Boulevard, Waterbar, Slanted Door, Kokarri, Nopa, Elite Cafe, Picco's, Il Davide. For me, it's really about sharing the experience with my partner enjoying good wine and food...the attire and secondary.

Adventure: Hiking anywhere in nature, wine country, weekend getaways, hot springs, sitting by outdoor fires, spas, sailing, traveling, appreciating other cultures and countries...and love anywhere in Europe.

I have an eclectic appetite for traversing the vast landscapes of the intellectual, distinctions in language, science, art, pleasurable fun and adventure (both indoors & out)'s all amazing and inspiring...a never ending exploration into the infinite realms of learning and possibilities of the: Body/Heart/Mind/Spirit/Soul...on so many levels.

And so much more...

"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends
My daily Yoga practice
Laughter, meaningful, authentic conversations
Touch, warm hugs, deep intimacy, sensuality
Delving deeply into the vast realms of creativity, arts & nature
Change, growth, adventure, exploration & playfulness...
Warm fires, good food, homemade bread (I make the best)!
Fine wine, bubble baths (and sharing them)!
Fine linens
More love
Dental Floss, SonicCare Toothbrush & WaterPic!
(Yes, I what...I went over...I was never one to paint by numbers or live from a static, predictable box, either)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to stop thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pretty silly question, actually...I'm certain you'll understand if I choose not to answer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you find yourself feeling intrigued...inspired...AND you live within a 50 mile radius ONLY...preferably within 15 miles. Anything over that don't even bother...I am seriously NOT interested...(well, unless you own your own plane/private jet and have tons of discretionary time to invest exploring)!

I'm into keeping our initial communications really simple. A couple of emails, exchange "current/accurate" pictures...then a phone call and/or meeting for a brief cup of coffee or perhaps a glass of wine....depending on our schedules...perhaps somewhere quiet and pleasant that allows us to feel out the comfort and chemistry between us.

PS. All my pictures are very recent, untouched...what you see is truly me, how I accurately look today. I'd appreciate the same current and authentic sharing of your pictures with me, as well...I mean, at some point we just may meet in person...right?

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