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36 Bellevue, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:32am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born and raised in Washington, and I love it here. I love the outdoors, and head out on runs, walks or backpacking trips whenever the mood strikes. I started rock climbing not too long ago and it's a blast.

In contrast to my active, outdoorsy tendencies, I'm also a big video game and role-playing geek, so I spend a fair amount of my time gaming with friends, wandering Skyrim, making a little CG Batman beat people up, or what-have-you.

Personality-wise, I'm quiet, awkward, blunt, calm, empathetic, and easy-going...or at least that's what everyone tells me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a structural engineer, so most of my week is spent figuring out how to keep buildings from falling down and crushing people. I enjoy the work, make a good living, and I think keeping people from being crushed by buildings is a pretty awesome and useful thing to be doing.

When I'm not working, I play games, read, hang out with friends, do outdoorsy stuff, and work on random craft projects.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Street Fighter
...Yeah, I'm a nerd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like a lot of things, but I figure I better keep this brief so that there's a chance people may actually read it.

Books: Just about anything by Brandon Sanderson or Neal Stephenson

Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, Willow, The Incredibles, As Good as it Gets

Shows: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Firefly, Orange is the New Black

Video Games (Yeah, I snuck this in here. Don't tell anyone.): Monkey Island, Batman: Arkham City, Braid, Street Fighter, Star Control II, Dragon Age: Origins

Music: Florence + The Machine, Johnny Cash, Of Monsters and Men, Lindsey Stirling. I also derive sick pleasure from being the only person who really likes Boyd's Journey from the Ravenous soundtrack.

Food: Pumpkin Pie, Sausage, Cream Cheese Danishes, IPA, Quiche
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm sure I'd make do, but for the sake of discussion...

Good friends
Stories (books, movies, etc.)
Down time

Honorable mention: Beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Various games and systems. Engineering problems. What life would be like if I lived in another time or place. My own thoughts and feelings (self-examination).

I also occasionally worry that my haircut makes me look like a racist. I'm balding, though, so my options are pretty limited.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I get together with a regular gaming group on Fridays, so I'm pretty much always in Federal Way hanging out and playing Savage Worlds.

Other days of the week I might be found at pub trivia, hanging out with friends, climbing at the gym, camping in the woods, lounging around at home with a book, show, or video game, or working on some random project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Check out my match question explanations for some good tidbits.
You should message me if
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You want to get together and chat a bit to see how we get along. It's that simple, really.

Bonus points if you enjoy video games, tabletop RPGs, backpacking, rock climbing, or anything else I mention above, or if you want to introduce me to something new that you think I might like.

Yeah, don't wait for me to message you. I did say I was shy, quiet and awkward, right? If you're interested, just throw the normal gender dynamic out the window and say so.