I've been told that I'm a good listener, and it's something I take a lot of pride in. For me, deep conversations-- whether over coffee, on a run, or on a couch at a house party-- are some of the most fulfilling kinds of interactions. I even thought of becoming a therapist at one point because of how much I enjoy those experiences.
I don't tend to spend much time in bars; I would much rather spend an evening hanging out with friends or even just going to the gym, and I'm definitely looking for someone on a similar wavelength. I tend to be drawn to deep-thinking, curious, and playful sorts of people.
In terms of Myers-Briggs, I'm definitely an INFJ, although I get along really well with just about everyone I meet, which I attribute to that 'Midwest niceness' us Wisconsinites are born with. Regardless, the first time I read this description of INFJs I was shocked by how accurate dead-on it was, so if you're interested, it gives a pretty powerful description of what I think makes me tick: https://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html
Anyway, feel free to say hi. :)