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  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
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Last online
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6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Summarize myself?

Aspiring for personal growth, trying to understand society and refusing to let it make decisions for me. Exploring the rationale behind peoples decisions and thought process. Striving to think objectively and logically. Realizing there is very little in this world that is Black and White.

I'd like to believe im pretty multi-dimensional. I can connect with most people spare the prideful ignorant and self involved.

I've been on this site for some time now and i often read the 'Questions' section. Some of the things people put up here are quite contradicting or just odd. So i think i'll attempt to update this once in awhile with a Question of my own in search for clarity on what some of these contradictions or puzzles mean.

Love Logic Question 1:

What the hell is Short term Dating? I have no clue what this means.

(This one isn't as much a 'Questions' confusion i have, more so an OkCupid profile dating preference that i can't grasp)

Do you 'date' someone with the intention of their being an inevitable expiration? Like, do i short term date you for a week? Are we 'entwined' and labeled as a pair for a month or until our arrangement loses excitement? I don't get the basis of Short Term Dating. Any help?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Preparing for the future. Attempting to understand life and the people in it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Observation
*Story telling
*Giving Advice
*Helping Others Have Fun, Laugh, and Enjoy Themselves
*Much more...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
*Facial Expressions
*Eyelashes -__-
* Wit
* Clean Cut, Facial Hair always on point!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is far too broad a subject and would be an entirely too long of a list. So i'll just say that my favorite actors are Denzel and Johnny Depp, Actress are Gabrielle Union off the top of my head. I watch alot of shows that i marathon from the internet, so i don't really have a favorite. I listen to alot of variety of music, and i believe that many artists and genre's have their place. I like good food, not a huge fan of vegetables, but as stated earlier i am trying to eat healthier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* My Computer
* Creativity

Off the top of my head, this is what i have. Keep it real.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, my friends. Theorizing/philosophizing about life, government, society, inter-gender relations and romance/sex. Creating storylines and characters, designing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing in the house with some friends enjoying discussion, television, or games. If not that im at work or out on the town for the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not too sure what to divulge here. Im a pretty open book, so anything you care to ask, i usually have no problem telling you straight. Im an honest person almost to a fault.
You should message me if
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you're looking for a good time with someone who is going to keep things interesting and challenge you mentally!

Don't message me if you're not open minded, and think subjectively. Prone to Drama. Uninteresting with little to say. Think im going to trick on you, or play sugar daddy, im not about that life.

I find that alot of the questions on this site are pretty good conversation starters. So to break the monotony of "Hey" "Wassup" "How are you" etc.... Try asking about why i replied to a question the way i did