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Trendseeker1

56 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am a country boy who has been in NYC for a while. But i keep my gee whiz outlook when its fun to do so. That's fun. Other times my world experiences fare me quite well. That's a different fun -- a self satsfaction, I suppose.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been fortunate to have earned a great education, worked in great jobs and had many long-lasting relationships -- platonic and romantic. I have several interests that I try and balance with my work and entrepreneurial pursuits and good friends who will always be there for me and who I support fully.

I am serving on a couple of Boards (An Arts organization and a NY City appointment) and would like to support other such organizations. I can do more. I need a creative outlet (voice lessons?)

Most importantly, I have been able to keep my self-respect and positive outlook through the good times and the bad times. I know that such ups and downs are part of the rhythm of life. I'm happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leadership, vision and unstructured situations. I'm also an outstanding networker -- I connect people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have substantial presence including a strong voice and a certain directness of communication.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love great food (Brooklyn and downtown Manhattan) and I am always trying to cook. I try to make it to the Farmer's Market every week.

Although I have fallen off lately, it's been my practice to focus on the works of Nobel Prize and Booker Prize winners. I also have an extensive collection of art books (more later). I do enjoy museums and galleries.

I'm a big jazz fan, vocals and instrumentals -- Cassandra Wilson, Nina, Kurt Ellling, Frank, Johnny Hartman, Ray Charles, Johnny Cash, Lou Rawls, Sam Cooke, Coltrane, A. Braxton, Abdullah Ibraham -- and try to stay on the scene by regularly attending the jazz venues. I like Country and Bluegrass, too. By the way, I think that I can sing, but deep, deep in my heart, I know that I am not good enough.

Love movies but this, too, has fallen off.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good health
Internet
Quality food at quality venues
Intellectual challenges
NYC Parks esp, Prospect, Madison and the High Line
Great coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-- The firm that I started and my obligation to the people who have joined me in the enterprise and ways to fine-tune my vision for this venture.
-- My two sons (23 & 16) who live in Maryland.
-- How to achieve the Balance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do Pilates or Gyrotonics to get the weekend off to a good start. Sometimes go out afterwards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm passionate about many things (actually everyone I know already knows this, but you don't!).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating