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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:21am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, French (Okay)
My self-summary
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I try to focus on doing things with my life as opposed to worrying about how people perceive me. Sometimes I growl and get angry; friends laugh when i stomp my foot and i'll be laughing with them.

If you ask me about my hobbies, I'll tell you that I set extreme goals that I would have definitively said "no" to 6 months prior. And then I rock the goal.

It would be really great to have a go-to guy for cuddles, sex, and general masculine support. Someone to trust and be myself with. A partner. A long term relationship. Also someone who can do long rides me: 60-112 miles on the bike. Any takers?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fun and happiness are pursuits; I don't believe they fall into the laps of the lazy. We've got to go get it! So that's what I do.

What I do for a living is a large part of who I am. I don't live to work; but it does usually energize me and give meaning to my life. I earned my Doctorate so that I could be of service to others and I fulfill that goal daily.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Baffling people with the things I say
-Making no sense at all even when my logic is perfect.
-Seeing what makes people special
-Teasing my brother.
-Being non-judgmental- because who really cares- except in traffic! Random skill: I can parallel park a bus. Well, at one point I could.
-Brewing beer apparently
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can seem kind of serious. And I am serious sometimes; in my job I have to be. I love it when guys make me laugh so that I can be my relaxed, goofy, and generally irreverent self.

I also blush easily. Have fun with that one if we meet. If I'm blushing, I'm probably also smiling which means I like you and we're having a great date!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I think listing this stuff is kind of silly and doesn't really say anything all that much about me but maybe it gives our in-person conversation a jumping off point???

Books that have had an impact:
"The Razor's Edge" by W. Somerset Maugham.
"What is the What," by Dave Eggers
"Veronica Decides to Die" by Paulo Coelho - messed up title, I know.
"Wherever You Go, There You Are" Zinn
"The Celestine Prophecy" James Redfield - ya, I know...
"Native Son" Richard Wright
"You come too" Robert Frost
"The Namesake" Jhumpa Lahiri

For movies:
"Some Kind of Wonderful"
"The Hunt For Red October"~ why does this surprise people?
Sure, all the 80's classics, I think my favorites are "Real Genius" and "One Crazy Summer."

I'm not paying for TV service right now and find it extrememly liberating.

Food: Curry of any kind~ Indian, Thai, Ethiopian. Also becoming a beer snob with my brother's support and guidance.

Venice is my favorite city. I've been 3 times. I realize that with all of the wonderful other places in the world I shouldn't need to go back again. At the same time, I'm sure that my life would be sadder if I didn't.

Namibia and Thailand are my favorite countries so far.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A smile from a guy I have a crush on
-friends, the kind you've had forever and are now more like family
-the ability to let go
-the ability to hold on
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't know, it's different all the time depending on what's on my mind.
Ethics tends to come up... Mine, other people's 😉
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Talking with a friend while we enjoy a nice dinner.
Doing a painful workout
Going for a run to clear my head from the week. -midnight running rocks!
Heading to the Bay to go sailing with my parents.
Out and About!
The other night i learned the West Coast Swing!
~I'd love to grab a beer with you~
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i took a photograph of a girl in tanzania once and it changed my life.
You should message me if
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Just message me. And when you do, please be appropriate and not gross. And then maybe we can meet.

And let's go ahead and meet and not just text a whole bunch.