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I was a military brat growing up so I've lived and traveled
throughout the United States and Europe. I've lived in CA 36 years
but not all in the same place or continually. I lived in Southwest
FL from 2002 - 2006 when the hurricanes finally chased me out (and
they all think earthquakes are bad!). I'm the youngest of three. I
have two older brothers so I get along with guys much better than
I like sports (watching and participating) but I also love to dress
up, wear heels (I'm 5'4" so I like to wear tall heels) and go out.
I am comfortable helping someone out if they want to work on their
car but I'm not a fan of getting all greasy myself. I know how to
fix things and can if I have to but would rather have someone else
do it. I can assemble things by reading and following the
directions. I use GPS even though I have a good sense of direction.
I like being a friend before being a lover. I love to have fun and
be adventurous (went inside rock climbing for the very first time
I volunteer or work at a lot at racing events (triathlons) if I'm
not doing them and my charity of choice is the Challenged Athletes
Foundation (CAF). I raise money for them every year. They help
people with physical disabilities be able to continue doing
athletics. They also work with military personnel who were injured
I am a total optimist and look for the good in everyone. I'm
demonstrative. I am also happy with PDA!
What I’m doing with my life
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I gave up a lucrative career in IT in 2006 to help my daughter and
her family (a story to be told later). I am now a USA Triathlon
Coach, a USA Triathlon Official and an Ironman Official. I have
done 14 sprint triathlons and two half marathons. I am currently a
coach for a high performance triathlete team. Tbe older kids are
ages 12-19. I work primarily with the younger group of kids, ages
7-11. I also am the springboard diving coach for two local high
schools. I specialize in coaching open water swimming though....I'm
especially good with those that have anxiety in the open water.
I’m really good at
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being passionate with the right person, being patient, teaching
swimming (especially open water), being a friend, taking
photographs, being adventurous and learning everything I can learn
that will help me be a better person.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How young I look for my age, then it's either my smile or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books is more like favorite authors for me. I'm a James
Patterson fan so anything he writes I like. I also like J.D. Robb.
I've read everything Dan Brown has written and if someone tells me
a book is really good, I'll give it a try. Mostly "who done it"
type or mysteries.
Favorite Movie is Avatar, then Shawshank Redemption. I like chic
flicks but I really enjoy movies that I can't figure out the ending
like The Game. I also enjoy action films.
I love all types of music. When I workout, I listen to my iPod a
lot. The music I enjoy when working out is anything that makes you
want to move. When I am at home and want to relax I like something
soft like jazz, classical or anything mellow.
My favorite food is dungeness crab (I lived in Northern CA for 30
years) or seafood, then sushi. I try really hard to eat healthy
(lots of fruits and vegetables) with lean protein and healthy fats.
But...I also like a glass of smooth red wine!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - Family
2 - Friends
3 - Fun
4 - Water to drink, to swim in and to play in
5 - Phone
6 - Passion with the right person for me....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be a better person, coach, mother, grandmother and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Coaching a swimming workout with the young triathletes I help
coach. I'm done around 7 so I usually go home...I would like to
have a reason to go somewhere else though.
I’m looking for
- Straight guys only
- Ages 35–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Any of this sounds interesting or if you need a triathlon, swim or
diving coach... ;)
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