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42 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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humble, lovable shoeshine boy

smart. funny. nice. compassionate. good listener.
What I’m doing with my life
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looking for my moose

Nonlinear in all things, I arrived here through a series of seemingly disconnected perambulations, including but not limited to: (1) squatting abandoned properties in an effort to overthrow property relations; (2) traveling throughout the midwest and up & down the east coast selling sunglasses; (3) writing a still-beloved book on the Mexican Revolution; (4) making out with Meryl Streep in San Francisco -- true story; (5) winning a Fullbright scholarship to study for a PhD in philosophy; (6) reading intensely French & German thought (mostly ethics and politics) and ultimately lots of feminist care ethics; (7) dropping out of the aforementioned program in order to do a second undergrad at CCNY in Computer Science.

Now, i am working as a software engineer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"All the monkeys clapped their hands and cried aloud, 'Lovely water, lovely water! To think that it starts far off in some cavern below the base of the mountain and flows all the way to the Great Sea'"
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am cute and smiley.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ubu Roi

"Autobiography of Red", "Garden, Ashes" , "Great Gatsby", "The Man Who Loved Only Numbers",
mumonkan, Zuangzi, Ionesco, Levinas, Ruddick, Jarry, Nagarjuna, Flores Magon, Kropotkin, Borges, Neruda, Mayakovsky

Nenaboozhoo is my bro.

"It's a Wonderful Life", "ghost dog"

"The Rocky and Bullwinkle Show"

Cab Calloway, Tex Beneke's whistle, Beirut, Clash, Linton Kwesi Johnson, The Smiths, Patti Smith, Elliot Smith, Minutemen, Gufazi, i heart Mekons

I cook a lot of vegetables, often with some sort of sauce: curries, salads, stir frys, etc.

I am learning how to use my Vitamix. I figured it out. Now I make a lot of juices.

I will make you a pie if you go out with me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I
......explain you
my state of mind?
The earth
has a whole skyful of lights...
The blue sky,
......a hell of a lot
............of stars.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
snuggled up with Shorty The Dog


Back then, I'd reached the age of twenty
and I was crazy.
I'd lost a country
but won a dream.
As long as I had that dream
nothing else mattered.
Not working, not praying
not studying in the morning light
alongside the romantic dogs.
And the dream lived in the void of my spirit.
A wooden bedroom,
cloaked in half-light,
deep in the lungs of the tropics.
And sometimes I'd retreat inside myself
and visit the dream: a statue eternalized
in liquid thoughts,
a white worm writing
in love.
A runaway love.
A dream within another dream.
And the nightmare telling me: you will grow up.
You'll leave behind the images of pain and of the labyrinth
and you'll forget.
But back then, growing up would have been a crime.
I'm here, I said, with the romantic dogs
and here I'm going to stay.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My screen name is a reference to Sun Wukong, the monkey who brought the monk Tripitika and the Buddhist sutras from India to China.
You should message me if
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you are nice and friendly