32,150 online now

The Google of
online dating

— The Boston Globe

Completely free

— TIME

A favorite hangout
for internet goers

— The Village Voice

A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution

— New York Post

Join Us!

Message Her

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

An image of TridentLayers
An image of TridentLayers
—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

TridentLayers

26 / F / Bisexual / Single

Somerville, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

Similar Users

Your Notes

Edit your notes

I am cheeky, loving, and fiery.

My Self-Summary

Hi again!

I used to have an account on this site, but deleted it a few months ago - I don't think I was ready to really meet people and connect. I'm sure this section will evolve, but for now...

I really, REALLY love life, have a million stories to tell, adore people and pets, appreciate the little things in life [waking up to my apartment kitty licking my forehead and meowing], I try to do the Metro crossword everyday, if I find someone attractive, I'll let them know, I LOVE playing with little kids in strollers on the T, and living my life with patience, love, truth, and knowledge.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently finishing up my degree, trying to get some programming up off the ground for young desi females, consulting, mentoring, cooking, and giggling. Lots of giggling going on in my life now. :) Teehee.

I’m really good at

Hugs, kissing people on the cheek, trying to remember to choose to love fully everyday, dancing, bringing people to face their truths and realizing it's not that frightening, loving, finding the beauty in nature, listening, making people laugh, when I'm tipsy, freestyling, board games, writing fun papers, participating in class [professors love me]...eye contact? :)

The first things people usually notice about me

How smiley I am! :) My height, my booming deep sexy voice, probably my breasts, how comfortable people feel around me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

B - anything by Orson Scott Card, Neil Gaiman, Khalil Gibran, Rumi, Neruda, etc.
Mo - Amelie, Girlfight, LotR, Born Into Brothels, Mean Girls, Anchorman, Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels, Love Actually, to name a few! :)
Mu - SO MUCH! Right now, Nujabes, People Under the Stairs, The Decemberists [sp?], Salim & Suleiman, A. R. Rahman, Shinski.
F - Thai, Indian, Italian, Vietnamese.

The six things I could never do without

I do not like this question, I refuse to answer it!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Right now:

Why we as women accept and even perpetuate the shit that gets thrown at us daily - i.e. commercials objectifying women, music that tells us we're good for shaking our asses and sexing it the way they want it;

Love in this world and it's ability to change lives - not just romantic, but understanding, non-judgmental, beautiful, bottomless love;

My tribe in New York;

My coffee intake paralleling my productivity...oh man, am I one of those people?! :-P EEEK;

ADHD.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either out dancing up a storm, trying to get better at Halo or Smashbrothers with my roomies, watching Hulu, at an event with my youth, or other such fun things. :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a little insecure about my belly, but learning to love it! I also used to read a lot of Babysitters Club books and R. L. Stein books on the toliet when I was in grade school. :-D

You should message me if

You can make a mean red curry with tofu thai dish over rice.

You are looking to love a mind, body, and soul, and understand that those things are easier than most people realize, and might not, but might, necessarily lead to a romantic relationship.

You actually read my profile - and not just looked at the picture, or search ladies who identify as bi [questioning, but there was no option :)].