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46 • Portland, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 42–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 12:52pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Strictly vegan
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Polyamorous: I am in a stable, long-term marriage which we are carefully and lovingly choosing to open after many years of monogamy. And it's going rather well -- my wife has a deep relationship with her awesome boyfriend and is wonderfully supportive of me dating. She's great. My new favorite word: compersion!
In discussing my hesitation about online dating with a friend, he looked at me and said, "Own your awesomeness!" Yeah!
Movies/TV: I enjoy watching movies, but have a very low tolerance for violence. Only on rare occasion will I watch a TV show (online).
Music: I'm quite the enthusiast. Thousands and thousands of artists and recordings and genres continually percolate through my life. I am passionate about music and almost always have it playing: jam bands to space music to house music to bluegrass to metal to reggae (especially dub) to punk to pop to electronica to swing to "world" to post-rock to jazz to folk to funk to progressive rock to unclassifiable weird stuff. And on and on and on.
Food: Strictly vegan, prefer local, whole, unprocessed ingredients. Love to cook!
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