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28 Somerville, MA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
No use lying here, right? Some would probably consider me lazy but to be honest, I'm just a true nester. I like my home base and recharge while I'm there. A perfect night for me would be some crappy take-out Chinese food, a marathon of a favorite tv show and some wine...wouldn't mind some eye candy spooning action as well. ;-)

Just some fun facts...I'd opt for a burger and fries over filet mignon but a martini over a beer. Spiders and insects creep me out but I'd probably walk up to a dog frothing at the mouth, with open arms. I melt for a great smile as well as a sexy baritone. I probably watch too many cartoons and enjoy every minute. I've tried a bunch of things ranging from sports to the arts and tend to have a jack-of-all-trades knowledge/capacity for them. I tend to see things through slightly more realistic rose colored glasses and like that optimism in others.

There's a ton more but why waste all the fun in figuring it out. Hope to hear from you.

- Tom
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a software engineer for a government research lab.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...hitting play on my DVR just when the commercials end.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Kind of random but I've been told by multiple people I have, "stupidly long eyelashes". Now I can't say whether that's the first thing you'd notice but kudos if it is because then you're looking at my eyes, which I've been told by Anna Faris, are the nipples of the face...I think I lost where I was heading with this...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Sci-fi junkie here: Pandora's Star, The Princess of Mars, Night/Day/Twilight Watch, Discovery of Witches, The Shadow of Night, this list could go on and on...and on...
- Thrillers (Lincoln Child, Douglas Preston and the like)
- Teenie angsty crap (twilight, the hunger games, etc.)
- Non-fictions (mostly physics or math based, and not all that often).

- Avatar
- EuroTrip
- Clueless
- Law Abiding Citizen
- Scream 1-4
- Cruel Intentions
- The Holiday
- Clue
- The Mighty Ducks Trilogy (Wu Wu, Kenny Wu!!!)

- Happy Endings
- Battlestar Galactica
- Archer
- Phineas and Ferb
- Chopped

Music: All kinds but for the most part it's pretty mainstream. Something I can sing along with and dance to is always a plus. :-)

Food: Let's just say that as long as it isn't still moving when it's placed in front of me, I'd probably eat it.

P.S. Could ketchup/sriracha be considered food? ;-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order...
1. Online shopping
2. My puppy, Archer
3. Chocolate
4. Video games
5. TV
6. Having four seasons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many guys shave their chests. Why guys? Let it grow! Rawr!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anything and everything from being home alone, dog in my lap, catching up on my DVR to a night out at a club dancing/partying until the sun comes up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not a very clumsy person but for some reason, when I do end up tripping or stumbling etc., it usually involves taking some old woman out with me. No idea why. Watch out ladies!

Probably more private things in the comments of my questions.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. You're a dog person
2. You used to be a phone sex operator ( I suppose someone with a sexy voice will do though) ;-)
n. You're a gamer.