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TripsieD

32 / M / Gay / Single

Manasquan, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Jan 6
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Contrary to how some of the test results came out (hehehe 70% slut, which I think is kind of funny) I can be shy and reserved at times and loud and obnoxious at others. I don't think I've ever said exactly the right thing at the right time, it's not like I don't try though, well may be once twice that happened, I just tend not to be overly appropriate. My cornball jokes are famous (if not infamous), I just love to hear people laugh (I know, 40,000 comedians out of work and I'm looking for a job!) and see people smile.

I've been described as the sweetest person most of my friends know. Yes, I've been known to drive 6 hours to go see someone who needed me to be there for them (no, it wasn't someone I was dating etiher). I guess this comes from my belief that everyone has value and should be treated like they were the precious thing on earth.I've also been described as the coolest person my friends know.

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What I’m doing with my life
I am currently producing several local bands here in NJ, as well as playing in one. It takes up a lot of my time, though not really as much as you would think. Studio work is a lot of fun, but I really enjoy going out and doing shows with the bands that I have been working with. It's really great to have a job that I love and work with bands that I have a lot of respect for.

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I’m really good at
Not to be an arrogant jerk but I am really a darn good producer/engineer. I have heard other people's mixes and they just don't measure up. Kinda cocky? Yeah, I guess so, but I have the product that proves it. You can talk all you want but the proof is in the pudding (so to speak).

On the physical side of things, I've been told I'm a great kisser (guess I can't complain about that) and a ferocious cuddler.

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The first things people usually notice about me
My outgoing personality and my corny jokes. Yup, I have no problem making an ass out of myself if it means getting someone's "giggle quota" up (aka making them laugh)

My directness. If something's crap, believe me, I have no problem saying it. If I like something, again, I have zero problem telling you how much I like it and why.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Due to the bands that I have been working with, my music library has grown. I have been listening to a lot of punk, rock-n-roll (i.e. Zebrahead, Gold Finger, Elliott Smith, Ratatat and others) that wouldn't normally show up on my iPod. Normally though, I tend to stick to 80's, jazz, new age but mostly music that has some sort of atmosphere to it.

Food: There really is not much I won't try.

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The six things I could never do without
My recording studio, yeah it's small, but it works for me and the bands I work with. There isn't much I can't do here.

The bands I work with. I couldn't do my job without 'em.

Music in general

Food...love to eat (even I do tend to forget to eat alot)

Beer - one before the show and one after and I'm good.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of my thoughts revolve around the studio and production work. It's just where I'm at the moment.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Probably at a venue somewhere with one of the bands that I work with or playing a show. If there isn't a show, I might be in the studio doing some recording or just hanging out with friends.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a lot shyer/insecure than most people take me for.

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I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 18-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You are interested and/or just feel like it...messages are always a good thing. I'm also very woo friendly

You should also message me if you have a band that needs a producer (shameless plug I know, but hey, it's worth a shot)

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