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34 Chatham, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
No one really reads this anyway right?
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding a balance between career focussed and the things in life that really matter: family, adventure, honesty, travel, and laughing at yourself when you trip on that part of the side walk you were sure was level. I come from a really close family and have a picture perfect idea of how family and relationships are supposed to work which, in the end, may be both a blessing as well as an Achilles heel. I work really hard at what I do but play just as hard. No, that doesn't mean get fall down drunk or party eight nights a week. I love being active and am always either swimming, running, surfing, working out, yoga.. you name it. If it involves being active, I'm in, and would love to find someone who has their own passions they'd like to share. I have a rather extreme attraction to the ocean and spend a lot of time doing water sports. A cross over there would be pretty cool.

I'm looking for someone who has actual class and does not strive to be their favorite real housewife or Kardashian. A woman who has manners and respects family and commitment. I'm a litigator so my professional life is filled with conflict and dispute. As a result, I will do anything to avoid an argument in my personal life and am as laid back as can be. I believe in helping others and always waving to your neighbors. It can have such a huge impact on both their day as well as your own outlook on the world. If that sounds too hippy or overtly altruistic, try it for a day. Wave to an old lady, hold the door, whatever. You'll see, it matters.

Oh yea, and please no druggies, married women, or anyone who actually writes "sup", "holla", or "suga". Also, while I love children, please no one with kids.
I’m really good at
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Filling out about me sections, describing my interests and rambling on about myself endlessly in little white boxes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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East of Eden, Lolita, anything by Charles Bukowski, To Kill a Mockingbird, Bright Lights Big City, The Bell Jar, Les Miserables, American Psycho
The six things I could never do without
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Coffee, family, zoning out completely when necessary, music, waves....I guess I don't have a sixth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people say "I like to have fun". Is that code for something I'm just not cool enough to know about?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Notta chance dingo
You should message me if
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You have real interests.....I don't care in what as long as they exist