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25 F Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 26
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hiya, fancy meeting you here. Very fanciful.

Originally, I am from a tiny town. The closest you can get to a “Wild West” and still be in this fine province. This means I am much like a feral cat that now has a home in the human world; I am lazy in the opulence. I also have occasional and sudden bouts of frenetic energy. Hide your rugs people.

Speaking of people, I like people. Sometimes. I enjoy the company of the strange and the startlingly self-aware.

I am in a poly relationship with messy_muse. She is the most amazing person I have ever met.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being indecisive. Or rather, being exceptionally decisive but forgetting what I decided the day before. If I had a grape for each of the times I've been ecstatic about some new idea and then forgotten about it completely in two days I would have several bottles of wine.

Rocking the hospitality industry.

Thinking/daydreaming, interpreting my night dreams.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Untangling huge masses of electrical cords

-Making the best mashed potatoes of all time (while simultaneously contributing to increasing waistlines and future heart attacks). I don't even eat potatoes...

-Using social touch

-Making people fall asleep with my snuggles. It's a super power.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've recently been told I look like mischief. People always seem to like the curls too and some lovely people have commented on my eyes.

My name as well, which is pretty and old-fashioned. It is very interesting how people treat one another due to preconceptions attached to names.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In no particular order, nor all inclusive:

Authors: David Gemmell, Jacqueline Carey, Rumi, Nnedi Okorafor, Lauren Beukes, Rene Denfield

Movies: The 5th Element, Trick 'r Treat, Up, Rise: Blood Hunter, Tank Girl, Pathology, and Pitch Black. Trying to convincingly fill up glaring plot holes is exceptionally fun for me.

The Alien Quadrilogy is a minor obsession.

Shows: Carnivale, Dexter (I didnt watch the ending so its still pretty), Avatar: The Last Airbender, Firefly, Community, The Animaniacs, BBC's Sherlock, Gravity Falls, Arrested Development and BTVS

Music: I seem to be less musically oriented than many. While I do deeply enjoy some music (even to the point of enthrallment), I am not moved as often, or as able to differentiate bad music from good music with the same level of finesse. If I was forced to choose a sense to lose, I would give up hearing first.

Still, a sample of what I enjoy: Son House, Adam Hurst, Blitzen Trapper, Porcelain and the Tramps (early stuff), Angelspit, Lightnin Hopkins, Halestorm, VNV Nation, John Lee Hooker, The Black Keys, The Decemberists, Infected Mushroom, The Heavy, Natalia Kills and In This Moment

Nommables: Raspberries, tumeric tea, bear roast, baked sweet potato, halibut cheeks
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My wonderful partner
- Delicious delicious tea
- Dreams, of the sleeping variety
- The scent of books
- Good sex, naturally
- My ferrets. So silly!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be the World's Most Successful Hobo, sexy and possibly bloody things, where I can score some raspberries, gender things, sharp things, urban agriculture/homesteading stuff, diy stuff, ancestral health stuff, really sexy things, alternative building methods, pagan stuff, story structures, the meaning of life, the apocalypse as opportunity to force my will and Utopian ideals upon others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work almost every Friday. Not my most exciting day of the week for sure. If I am not working: hanging out for ridiculous hours in the bathtub or ocean, playing board games with friends, reading or playing video games
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to be a were-tiger when I grow up.


Correction, I am a were-tiger but not yet grown up.
You should message me if
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You want me sift through your innermost secrets... or just a coffee buddy.

You want to be my pen pal. My level of online communications has drastically dropped off in the last couple years and I miss letter writing.

I’m open to the possibility of new friends and/or lovers but casual sex isn’t my thing. If it’s your thing I wish you luck elsewhere.

So, what are you waiting for?