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Troublinparadox

41 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:55pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
" i'm not from the internet."*****
"survivor over victim"**
"never pass up a good opportunity to shut up"****
"I’m passionate about the people in my life"*
"Reading between the lines and snowboarding..."***
"The day ends in the right place and knows how to begin again. I try not to get in its way."**
"i am a luddite, i can't type"****
"I'm mostly here for the book and movie recommendations"***
"Not ready for prime time"****
I don't think i'm cut out for online "dating"...
*--------------------------------------------*

Good: I am;
happy, strong, creative, generous, caring, diligent, supportive, open, honest, emotional but well grounded ( took quite a while), funny, optimistic, communicative, outgoing, self-aware, assertive..

Bad: I can be;
loud, insensitive, callous, cynical, a bit direct..
What I’m doing with my life
Killin' it on the DL
I’m really good at
Plagiarism of other profiles.
examples; Im really good at?
"Not taking questions like that"*
"wearing the same hat ( now shirt ) in 2 or more profile pics"*
ok, seriously;
making grilled cheese sandwiches, building things, fixing shit, gardening, talking, listening, remembering birthdays and signs, solving life's problems while creating them at the same time, driving, biking, tacos, eggs to order, jumping off shit, planning for long weeks in the desert, forgetting, remembering, holding on, letting go, lunch, dinner, fourth meal, seeing the bright side, seeing the dark side, making people :), making people :(, packing cars and rv's, sucking it up, showing affection, giving a shit, not giving a shit, being critical but not judgmental, saying the wrong thing, saying the right thing...
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile, laugh, volume, eyes, humor...?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read but really need to start reading more.
I don't have a current book list.
I need to upgrade this section..
I like movies but I am horrible at these type of lists.
Does anyone really care which movies i like?
I like some tv but hate to admit it..
I love food:
Pizza, Greek Spicy, Mexican, Raw, Vegetables, Italian, Sandwiches, Thai, Salad, Vietnamese, food trucks, Organic and local.
I love music:
hip-hop, house, minimal, downtempo, and whatever else is good when it's good....bluegrass, rock, blues, any good live music! ....2 step, garage, dubstep, glitch etc- kinda my favorites now for dancing and partying...classic rock, disco, new wave, 80's, 90's r&b, pop, old skool, funk, soul, classical, some country, jungle,ambient, reggae...++?? I like most music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life.. behaviors and mannerisms, emotions, relationships, beauty, aesthetics. The future. the past. Communication, sex, love...& a bunch of other random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Invoking my 5th amendment rights.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating