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TrueThinker

28 / M / straight / Single

Prole, Iowa

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
A little extra
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Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am Incred Introspective, Secretly Shy, and Funky Fresh.

My Self-Summary

Life is always changing, and I like to think I am relatively good at changing with it, so I am not really sure what to put here... although I am pretty sure if I can think of a couple more completely ambiguous phrases I will have managed to meet said 100 character minimum without teaching you anything.
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Basically, I love the outdoors but I am not really a hiker or sportsy person. I like to think I have a little knowledge on a lot of things (could figure out most things if I wanted to, love just driving around or sitting on a back porch chillin, I like talking philosophy, and from time to time get a hair up my ass to try something new.
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Wouldnt mind moving to France or at least Traveling the world (been to Europe once). Yes, Traveling with a capital T is better than regular traveling!

I have begun much more politically intrugued lately and tend to be socially and fiscally somewhat liberal, because I think we should try to make the world what we want it, and not be so afraid that we try and recreate yesterday out of fear. I do believe eventually we will have one world government and I am ok with that. Also, the analyst in me thinks that if you are going to have strong political beliefs, at the very least you should be able to back them up.

I am an athiest, and can tell you that if you are a hardcore neo-con, we probably wouldnt mesh. From that standpoint, if you are too extreme in a lot of your beliefs I will likely look at you with head cocked to the side and eyebrow raised, trying to figure out why. I am a pretty mellow fella, and generally dont see a reason to ever get too upset about most topics. I frankly don't understand why a person's sexuality, gender, or skin color should mean they get less/different human rights just because some dusty old book written based on pagan and other beliefs (without the current readers knowing so or able to admit so) says so.

Basically, I can be a total pragmatist, am most passionate about the woman I am sharing my life with, but love to cut loose once in awhile and head downtown for a drink with old friends.

What I’m doing with my life

Work work work.

My motto has always been and will always be "Family then work, then everything else".

I’m really good at

Pretty good at anything I try or want to be. As long as I don't NEED to be, and psych myself out.

But I excel in messing with people's heads. {Don't worry, only for the betterment of man/womankind... yup.}

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm not sure. That I either really don't care about them (which is a total facade) or that I really do care (also normally a facade). Typical Iowa personality is the appearance of being super nice, but hard to earn trust from.

Otherwise I have no idea. You'll just have to meet me to find out, I imagine.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) I tend towards Fantasy first, then a bit of Sci-Fi, then more instructional fiction. I love the concepts of magic and psychic powers without actually believing they are real (an important distinction I thought to make after reading various other Okcupid profiles that had me wondering). Unfortunately I know what LARPing is without ever participating.

Movies) I'm gonna stick with answer A here. Just add, I love movies that are either funny (i.e. Zoolander, Dodgeball, Caddyshack) or make me leave the theater thinking that perhaps I gained superpowers myself and am now a total bad ass!

3) For music? I seem to like anything that is popular... or was 5 years ago. That way I remain unique, riding the bandwagon on neither its initial run, or it's later resurgence.

D) Yes please?

The six things I could never do without

1.Being Loved. 2.Making Love (which I lump in strongly with #1, passion is key). 3.Books (what else am I to read in the privy). 4.Rum/Coke/Quiet Nights Outside. 5.Sleep. 6.A means of escape/freedom (like a car/motorcycle/dune buggy).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

All kinds of things. I never stop thinking.

Which superpowers I should have. Luckily there was a handy test just for that:

You scored as Maximus. After his family was murdered by the evil emperor Commodus, the great Roman general Maximus went into hiding to avoid Commodus's assassins. He became a gladiator, hoping to dominate the colosseum in order to one day get the chance of killing Commodus. Maximus is valiant, courageous, and dedicated. He wants nothing more than the chance to avenge his family, but his temper often gets the better of him.

Which Action Hero Would You Be? v. 2.0
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Captain Jack Sparrow 67%
Maximus 67%
James Bond, Agent 007 67%
Neo, the "One" 67%
Batman, the Dark Knight 63%
The Terminator 46%
El Zorro 42%
The Amazing Spider-Man 42%
Indiana Jones 38%
William Wallace 38%
Lara Croft 33%

On a typical Friday night I am

Having a drink on a bar patio in Des Moines, or having a drink on my patio on the farm.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I read A LOT even in the shower.

I'm a world of secret ambitions.

I'm a judger and an analyzer - and love being analyzed by others (not in a mean/critical way in EITHER instance).

I know oldies better than the old people. That sentence should end with "when I'm drunk"

I like 80's music more than I should.

It was a crime that Thundercats ever got remade.

I think it would be cool to be a part of an RPG], or run one (but I'm always in a leadership role from work so it's ok to step down sometimes).

People think too much of me.

I try and live up to these expectations anyways.

I know anyways isn't a real word.

You should message me if

You love joking and sarcasm. You love romance/curling up with a drink and cuddling. You can be a bit too emotional at times (I can be the rock). You are smart, sophisticated when need be, caring and sympathetic, a bit on the silly side, can talk about ANYTHING for hours at a time, can be ok with a guy who may think seriously but doesn't always show it on the outside.