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True_Gaymer

22 / M / gay / Single

Chandler, Arizona

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Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am nerdy, philosophical, and fun to be around.

My Self-Summary

I'm a happy person.
Me and my dog Macy are the best of friends.
I love video games.
I've discovered gay nerds are a rare breed,
borderline endangered species.
I am truthful, fair, and give good insight.
My favorite ice cream is black raspberry,
You don't really see it around anymore.
My goal is to own a slush puppy machine.
Sailor Moon and her slutty friends amuse me.
My musical taste is very broad.
I like a lot of indie pop though.
I love Japanese movies.
I want to learn as many languages as I can before I die.
Right now I just know bits and pieces of others :[
I really enjoy reading while taking a bath. Sooo gay.
I enjoy a good book every now and again.
I gravitate towards teen fiction, I know I'm lame.
I think a lot about life.
Right now, I think I should stop talking

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This is how it works
You're young until you're not
You love until you don't
You try until you can't
You laugh until you cry
You cry until you laugh
And everyone must breathe
Until their dying breath
No, this is how it works
You peer inside yourself
You take the things you like
And try to love the things you took
And then you take that love you made
And stick it into some
Someone else's heart
Pumping someone else's blood
And walking arm in arm
You hope it don't get harmed
But even if it does
You'll just do it all again

-Regina Spektor

What I’m doing with my life

My name is Josh.
I live in Phoenix and it ain't half bad,
I go to school at the Art Institute of PHX,
and I'm a barista there to make money.
Those are the people who make your latte.
It puts bread on the table
(warglewarglewarglewargle)
The murlok agrees.

I’m really good at

A little but of everything and a whole lot of nothing. Im trying to be a better artist right now. I know lots of useless information and am really interested in stuff like space, the deep ocean, and other things without answers yet. I'm good at being optimistic but realistic. I like to think about the things people don't like to think about, I love asking why.

The first things people usually notice about me

Maybe my wack ass personality lol, or my smile? I'm not sure I've never asked.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like a lot of silly teen novels that I probably should just put down and walk away from. But I won't.

Books:
+Uglies(series)
+Twilight(series)
+Harry Potter(series)
+Redwall(series)
+Battle Royale
+Memoirs of a Geisha
+A Little Fate
+The Zombie Survival Guide
+My Horizontal Life

I'm really into Asian cinema and Indie films, I love everything and anything that flies under the radar unjustly. I get really addicted to certain themes and ideas.

Movies:
+Battle Royale
+Dawn of the Dead
+Kill Bill 1&2
+Silent Hill
+Kung Fu Hustle
+Lady in the Water
+Deathproof
+Noriko's Dinner Table
+Suicide Club
+Curse of the Golden Flower

My friends make fun of me because every time I hear a song generally I've heard it and like it, or I like it and heard it for the first time. My taste in music is very broad but settles in eclectic indie rock/pop. I'll listen to anything twice though.

Music:
+Eisley
+Tommy February6
+The Cranberries
+Morning Musume
+Rilo Kiley

Food: Well this question isn't broad...I like potatoes most of all foods, regardless of how you make them. They're kinda my comfort food...

The six things I could never do without

My hands, music, computer, video games, books, baths

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Those really random questions like why are we here and what our purpose is. I love learning about people and behavior. I just sort of like learning actually. Yep that sounds okay.

On a typical Friday night I am

On the computer or out with friends, depends on how dorky I'm feeling. Witch Hunt with my work buddies and college friends has pretty much become a staple activity for us. Can't live without me some Witch Hunt 8D

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

"I know what you're thinking. These are the biggest boobies you've ever seen!"

That was Deuce Bigalow Male Gigolo by the way.

You should message me if

You know what you want, you are comfortable with who you are. Don't be ruled by your insecurities. Have a sense of humor, don't worry about not being yourself. We were going to find out eventually.