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43 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Buddhism, and laughing about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, Spanish (Poorly)
I find myself shifting from very pragmatic, organized alignment fundamentals and biomechanics at work to emotional, freeflowing and sometimes aggressive dance in my free time.
I often think up small inventions that would help in my work environment. I'm also thinking about how people can find small ways to move their body throughout the day instead of just a "1 hr workout" I'm inspired by the older chinese lady holding onto a stop sign to do her stretches.
I began meditating about a year ago and have been slowly grounding through that and finding a lot of comfort and satisfaction in that quiet, still place. I see it as similar to dance, there is a simultaneous letting go and focus.
Oh yeah, back to the dating thingy, I would enjoy meeting a single dad who can relate to me as a parent. I'm also open to just going out and having some fun and meeting some one kind and funny. If you are interested in joining me to go see art, dance, music, hiking, yoga or eating great food send me a message.
Happy to recently find out this is common? My cousin reads 5 different books at once too, I don't have ADD.
Music: Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Vampire Weekend, Santi Gold, The Memories, Shannon and the Clams, Hunks and His Punx from Oakland. Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, MGMT, Passion Pit, Sleater Kinney, Daft Punk, Mike Snow.
Like revisiting old favorites Bjork, My Bloody Valentine, Meredith Monk, Tom Petty, Sheila Chandra, John Zorn, Patti Smith, Talking Heads, Radiohead, Portis Head, Police. Skatalites, Booker T., Grateful Dead, English Beat, One of the best shows I saw was Public Enemy and Sonic Youth playing at the Catalyst in Santa Cruz, go figure. Oh I saw the Knitters there too, reminisce...I like Jazz, classical, experimental noise..blah, blah, blah
Movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, all Hiyao Miyazake Films, Wes Anderson, Sophia Coppola, Coen Brothers, Grind House, Party Girl, Young Adult, I like movies at the Embarcadero. Don't seem to have time to watch tv but I enjoyed Arrested Development, Raising Hope, Dailey Show, Louis Ck. I like checking out City Arts and Lectures, listen to kqed, radio lab show. If you are on the pulse of interesting offbeat movies I would love to be taken to some.
Food: I like almost all good food (opinion) as long as it tastes good (opinion) and doesn't have knuckles or sinew... I worked in the restaurant business for a bit and I really like not paying for food. Ah, those days are over. I have been vegetarian, vegan, and pescatarian. I admire those who are able to put their politics where their mouth is and still get proper nutrition. For me, I just seem to need to eat the meat. Though I don't take a Portlandia approach to chicken, I try to be mindful of what I'm eating without being elitist or forgetting the inherent privilege that comes with being so choosy and spending so much. I am humble and grateful I can choose.
Believing things work out for a reason
How to feel less rushed in a rushed city.
What it means to be an older dancer and performer.
What is performance? What is dance?
Connecting with my kids.
Growing as a teacher, remembering my clients are my teachers.
Remembering my kids are my teachers.
What's going on sociopolitically and my impact, voice. What I'm teaching my kids and how they can resist reductionism and fear for possibilities, responsibility and empathy.
Is it procrastinating or just musing?
Remembering things won't get done just by dreaming.
Can I airbnb the fairy house my kids built on the roofdeck?
Like smart, complex women.
Are a feminist.
Have an artist's soul, silly outlook and a social conscience.
Are self directed, successful and kind.
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