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43 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 36–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:57pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Ok, so I'm trying to get this profile out there. Who am I hahaha. I'm a perfectionist, procrastinator, relativist, so you'll have to get to know me. I say that because, I would forever rewrite and revise depending on mood and pov on a particular day. I do get things done regardless. I thoroughly enjoy being self employed and love my work. I am also a mother of two who would rather be coined a milf than a minivan. This profile writing is making me snarky so let me continue on a more genuine note. I am a lifelong dancer, sometimes performer, choreographer and dance theorist who is refocusing her energies back in this direction. I make my living teaching people how to connect and move more freely in their bodies.
I often think up small inventions that would help in my work environment. I may need to get on it and try to make one happen, just to see if I can.
I would enjoy meeting a single dad who can relate to me as a parent. I'm also open to just going out and having some fun and meeting some one kind and funny. If you are interested in joining me to go see art, dance, music, hiking, yoga or eating great food send me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
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This past year I've rededicated myself to dance, taking classes, choreographing and seeing lots of performances. I see my life in chapters and think about what I want to be manifesting. Artistic collaborations, honing my choreographic voice and deepening my connection to my body are central right now. I'm working on my house, cleaning out 13 yrs of stuff. I am not a hoarder!! But I do fantasize about empty spaces and sparse drawers and cabinets. Mind you, two children keep this fantasy in check. I'm figuring out how to travel more, reinvent my career and feel less rushed in a rushed city.
I’m really good at
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Improvising. Feeling the pull of 24 hour karma, less rushing more breathing. Suggesting ways for people connect with their bodies. Making people laugh. Making a mess with my kids. Appreciating small day to day connections I have with strangers and friends. Having long term dreams and goals and figuring out how to make them happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My red hair, blue eyes, freckles, long legs. I'll have to ask my friends about other things...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: David and Amy Sedaris, Lynda Barry Comics, Patti Smith Just Kids,
The Next 100 Years George Friedman, Cornel West, Judith Butler, Dance and Performance Studies Theory, Pema Chondron, Chogyam Trungpa, Geek Love, Anatomy Trains Thomas Myers, Katy Bowman Move Your DNA.

Music: Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Vampire Weekend, Santi Gold. New Favorites The Memories, Shannon and the Clams, Hunks and His Punx from Oakland. Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, MGMT, Passion Pit, Sleater Kinney, Daft Punk, Mike Snow.
Like revisiting old favorites Bjork, My Bloody Valentine, Meredith Monk, Tom Petty, Sheila Chandra, John Zorn, Patti Smith, Talking Heads, Radiohead, Portis Head, Police. Skatalites, Booker T., Grateful Dead, English Beat, One of the best shows I saw was Public Enemy and Sonic Youth playing at the Catalyst in Santa Cruz, go figure. Oh I saw the Knitters there too, reminisce...I like Jazz, classical, experimental noise..
Hedwig and the Angry Inch, all Hiyao Miyazake Films, Wes Anderson, Sophia Coppola, Coen Brothers, Grind House, Party Girl, Young Adult, I like movies at the Embarcadero. I have not gone to movies or watched television in a while. I have heard there are many amazing programs. Listen to kqed throughout the day, radio lab show pretty good. If you are on the pulse of intersting offbeat movies I would love to be taken to some.

Food: I like almost all good food (opinion) as long as it tastes good (opinion) and doesn't have knuckles or sinew... We live in San Francisco, there's no need for crappy food! I managed a sushi restaurant for 3 yrs and have opened a couple restaurants, I really like not paying for food. But those days are over. I have been vegetarian, vegan, and pescatarian. I admire those who are able to put their politics where their mouth is and still get proper nutrition. For me, animal protein seems key. Though I don't take a Portlandia approach to chicken, I try to be mindful of what I'm eating without being elitist or forgetting the inherent privilege that comes with being so choosy and spending so much. I am humble and grateful I can choose.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Moving my body
My Kids
Believing things work out for a reason
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to simplify and pair things down.
What it means to be an older dancer and performer
What is performance? What is dance?
Connecting with my kids
Growing as a teacher, remembering my clients are my teachers.
Remembering my kids are my teachers.
Being out in the fresh air.
Being present.
What's going on sociopolitically and my impact, voice. How I'm teaching my kids about all the isms and how they can resist reductionism and fear for possibilities and multiple selves.
Is it procrastinating or just musing?
Remembering things won't get done just by dreaming.
Can I airbnb the fairy house my kids built on the roofdeck?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to a performance, meeting friends, noodling in my studio, going out to listen to music. Or spending the evening with my kids and other families dreaming, wondering, enjoying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Why? :)
You should message me if
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You won't be offended if I don't reply.
Like smart, complex women.
Have a glass half full attitude.
Are a feminist
Have an artist's soul, silly outlook and a social conscience.
Are self directed, successful and kind.