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41 • San Diego, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Pacific Islander
- 5′ 9″ (1.76m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Ph.D program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Other (Fluently)
Thanks for visiting my profile. Let me know and I'll visit yours. There is much that you can learn from a self-summary, but there is always more to it than can be written.
We are all better in real life than we are on our profiles. Wouldn't you agree?
I am interested in adventures in SD. I have some fun ones that I've been on. Do you have an adventure that is unique and incredible - not the ones that everyone knows about. Unknown adventures - you got any?
I am a life long learner. I am very open to new ideas and experiences. Are you a life long learner? What are you learning?
Molding young minds. Remolding old ones.
I write. I blog. I love to learn and make new connections. I love talking to people that are able to teach me new things.
Developing a meditation practice. Loving the journey.
Gainfully employed, but the opportunities to do more things keep coming up. It's nice to get to do so many things and to have opportunities.
Many other things.
Do you have a hard time with this section?
Have you ever asked anyone this question?
I love to read.
I love music.
I love food the most.
I'm reading more and more fiction. I don't normally read fiction, but I'm realizing that there is a high level of thinking that is needed to read fiction. I quite enjoy reading research still, but also enjoying some fiction. What do you read?
Movies - too many to list.
Shows - it all depends on the mood. I don't really have a favorite. I like documentaries and just shows that make you think or learn.
Music - anything I can play on my guitar.
Food - you're just going to need to ask me about this one.
My laid-back attitude
Do you have any of the same things on your list?
I spend time thinking about how serious people are about their profiles. This is very important to some people. It's awesome.
If you think of some of the same things, let's talk.
Probably having some wonderful food.
...I like reading profiles.
...when I see a profile that has only one picture of multiple people in it so you can't tell who's profile it is - it makes me wonder what the thought process there was.
...oh, there are so many more wonderful things to add
...you flipped a coin to see if you should message and it landed on tails
...you have an adventure in SD that no one knows about
...you need a friend.
...you want to.
...you want to have a great conversation. I promise to write more than "Hi. How are you?"
...you have a question that you want to ask me.
...you keep checking out my profile but you haven't written a message to me yet.
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