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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:56pm
Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a set builder/prop-maker and have worked for the last two years on both Hell's Kitchen and Master Chef. I like using my hands to create things. I find it very satisfying to have something tangible to point to at the end of the work day and be able to say, "I made that."I can make myself laugh just by thinking of something funny. I am honest, sometimes at the detriment of a current situation.

I like nature and animals and stuff. I can geek out a little when it comes to birds and reptiles.
I like things that aren't easily explained in a few sentences. I would rather find out more about someone by meeting them instead of reading about who they are on their profile. So there you have it!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Gearing up for what looks to be a busy year work wise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to dance and know how to swing, cha cha, foxtrot, polka, salsa , post-modern breakdance, interpretive etc. I am also really good at having a good time, no matter the circumstance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my dimples, or my tongue if it is out...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books! I love field guides of the Audobon series... and nonfiction about nature and science. I also like the historical science fiction of Neal Stephenson in the Baroque Cycle. Southern Gothic as in Flannery O'Conner's A Good Man Is Hard To Find. David Sedaris, Poetry: Actual Air, David Berman, anything by William Butler Yeats, Carl Sandburg, and e e cummings...

Movies: I like all kinds of movies for lots of different reasons. Here are some Directors I usually enjoy, Hitchcock, David Lynch, Wes Anderson, Francios Truffaut, Stan Brakhage, Nicolas Roeg, Coen Bros., Maya Deren, Ken Russel, Roman Polanski, David Fincher, Satyajit Ray, Abbas Kiarostami, Stanely Kubrick, Steven Spielberg.... I can go on for some time about movies, best to ask me more specific question.

Music: Talking Heads, They Might Be Giants, Pixies, The Fugs, The Beatles, Morphine, Soul Coughing, Archers of Loaf, Polvo, Das Racist, Childish Gambino, The Shins, Pere Ubu, Minutemen, X, Moondog, Cake, Slayer, Napalm Death, The Stooges, Duke Ellington, The White Stripes, The Flaming Lips, Kronus Quartet, Neko Case, Uncle Tupelo, Wilco, Faith No More, Tom Waits, GirlTalk, My Bloody Valentine, Animal Collective, Andrew Bird, Sleigh Bells, Nick Cave, Man Man, Dinosaur Jr., Sebadoh, Harry Partch, Sun Ra, Yo La Tengo, Wire, REM, The Smiths, Xiu Xiu, John Cage, Television, Ledbelly, CCR, Peter Gabriel, Major Laser, Superchunk, Pavement, Guided By Voices, Joanna Newsom, Disclosure, Miike Snow, The Knife ... I am forgetting a lot here. This list goes on for sometime...

Food: I like anything. I will eat anything. Except ducks. I have a strong emotional bond with them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Dancing (dancing is communicating, it's my favorite way to meet people)
2) Friends/family (I'm very social)
3) Making lists
4) Food! (this one isn't purely literal, I really love food)
5) my car (I do live in LA, it would be horrible if I didn't have my Debra)
6) I don't know, I can do without a lot of things...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
TOPICS OF THOUGHT: I think about how I can get started in developing new clean/renewable energy systems. And making artificial intelligence. How to start my own cult, or how cults get started in general. Traveling, I have a huge list of places I must go before all is said and done. I have already been to New Zealand and the Dominican Republic, so they are scratched off the list... but I wouldn't mind going back there as well, especially New Zealand. Why Golden Girls is suddenly so popular again. Why the zombie apocalypse is also so popular at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe going out to eat, or maybe staying in because I have to work early the next day... checking to see what bands are playing... Having a few drinks and dancing is ideal though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am color blind. That's not really private though.
You should message me if
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you made it this far! good for you. The last bits are important! so please read!

I would ideally like to find my perfect match (of course) but I'm not in a rush. I work a lot so I don't really have much time for this anyway. I would love to be friends with someone first and see if there is chemistry. If yes, Great, if no, than I have gained a new friend. I feel most comfortable in polyamorous relationships and believe everyone can have more than one "soulmate" although, if you aren't poly it isn't a "deal breaker". But, know that I am currently in an open relationship, so if you're ok with that then great!

I go to burning man every year and camp with BWB, if you are a burner you get bonus points automatically! If these ideas are in line with your views, and you think I'm cute, you should message me.

Thank you.