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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 21
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I'd like to connect with pretty, intelligent women in London, for friendship and more. If you like creative types, who actually scrub up rather well, I'm your man; articulate, experienced, well-traveled, well-preserved, musical (I play guitar, piano, mandolin and ukelele to varying degrees of competency), with a dark sense of humour and a thirst for culture, high and low.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional writer with a background in publishing and film distribution, who fell into writing for video games a couple of years ago. These days I freelance for clients in London, the U.S., China and Finland.

Out of work, I'm still getting used to being back in the city after ten years out of town. Revisiting old haunts and finding new ones. Doing stuff...
I’m really good at
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Wordy stuff. Musicy stuff. And I have a way with cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Often - but not always as it comes and goes (currently gone) - my facial hair. A bit on the Edwardian side. Or that I have just said something wildly inappropriate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Extremely catholic tastes. I can find personal favorites in almost any genre of book and film, but my faves are Chandler and Hammett, Jim Thompson, John Steinbeck, John Wyndham, Wodehouse, Fielding, Dickens, Voltaire and Joe Lansdale. Big fan of comics and graphic novels too. If you think that's silly or childish, I'll happily put you straight. Favourite films include Harold & Maude, The Outlaw Josey Wales, Grosse Point Blank, Hannah & her Sisters, and anything with Bogart (Bacall a bonus). Current TV faves include Game of Thrones, Community, The Walking Dead, Deadwood and The Thick of It. I don't do reality TV. I avoid offal but am not hard to feed. My death row meal would be the Snow Dragon beef from a place round the corner from my last company's Beijing office. The vast distance between this dish and me is a constant torment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, comedy, coffee, Radio 4, Rizla and regular access to a cat or cats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the thing I'm about to say will offend the people I'm about to say it to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book. But the book is lent to one reader at a time. The most private thing I'm will to admit in this instance is that after an incident with a red shirt in the college laundry room, I wore pink underwear for most of my university career.
You should message me if
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You're clever, pretty, left-leaning and a little bit kinky.