Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sometimes I feel like I'm on vacation when I see the Hollywood
hills in the distance or when I walk outside barefoot and I can't
see my breath in March. Originally I'm from Chicago and I moved to
California with my girl friend (now wife) to experience life on the
west coast. Currently I'm working in art conservation and
exhibitions to pay the rent. When I have free time I paint and work
on projects around the house. I've been living near downtown for
almost five years and overall it was a great move.
My wife and I have an open relationship. Her okc name is siriris.
We don't call ourselves polyamorous, but we come pretty close to
fitting that description. We've had an open relationship for about
five years and we've been married for almost two years.
Staying active is important to me. Biking, hiking and camping are
some of my favorite recreational pastimes. I also love going to
museums and galleries. I'm definitely down for a bike ride anytime.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Mostly working 9-5 and planing my next vacation. Lately after hours
I've been designing neckties, exploring non-monogamy with my lovely
wife and having good times with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands, creating new soup recipes and crashing
pools. Sharing skills with people is something that I really enjoy,
so if you're an artist or a crafty person we'll get along nicely.
Painting, wood and food are some my favorite mediums to work with
and I'm always getting into new projects. A couple years ago I got
obsessed with making a pair of pants so I took up sewing. Outside
of the studio arts, I do some gardening and make wine from foraged
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess it depends where your looking. Nice butt? I smile a lot and
people say that I'm easy going.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like books about artists, I watch movies (too much) and have a
couple shows in the weekly rotation. Most of the books I own are
art related. My most recent read, The Magus, will be hard to top.
Suggestions? Lynch, Cronenberg, Kubrick and Gilliam are a few of my
favorite directors. Jodorowsky's, Holy Mountain is my favorite
movie. I don't have a TV, but the shows I watch are online. Where
are my dragons? I'm all over the place with music. I like to listen
to hip hop and Die Antwoord in the studio. R&B for BBQs. Jazz
and Blues for Sunday mornings. I love all kinds of food and I love
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loving wife
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Designs, music, ways to get out of a jam, the future, building
things, how to fit more materials in our tiny apartment and sex
too. Not necessarily in that order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually relaxing and making plans for the weekend. Maybe
ordering a pizza and watching a movie. I prefer to go out on
Saturday, Sunday or during the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Telling people that I'm in an open relationship is pretty high on
the list of things I'm private about but willing to talk about.
Normally I wouldn't open up a conversation with a stranger about my
relationship but since I'm here to find romantic friends I want to
be up front about it. Ask me if you want to know more juicy
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to laugh and enjoy the company of someone who's a little
You're interested in meeting up for a drink or a hike after a few
You're cool with open relationships, or you're in a relationship
and want to double date.
Who are you looking for?
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