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Tugger

40 / M / straight / Available

Seattle, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am casual, lanky, and playful.

My Self-Summary

A short bit here, as I am more comfortable sharing myself in person, rather than in text.
I love meeting people, learning about them, sharing myself, understanding new ideas, having my views challenged, my mind, body, and heart stimulated.
I and my wife are polyamorous, and while we are committed to each other, we are both very open to other relationships.

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying it with all the people near and dear to me. Working on picking up some more education. (Studying to become a forensic technician.) Continuing my activity in the SCA. Being there for my friends and family. Working on the big beautiful old house we just moved into. Loving and adoring my new daughter.

I’m really good at

Playing wargames. Reading. Playing around in bed. Being a friend. Problem solving.
SCA heavy fighting. (see www.clancarn.com for me and my wacky friends who do this.)
Flirting. Learning. Providing a understanding shoulder to comfort a friend. Listening without judging.
Topping, in BDSM, and D&S.
Growling, deep in my throat.

The first things people usually notice about me

Tall, dark, and not awful looking. A smile, or grin.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books include The Forever War, Starship Troopers, Time Enough for Love,
the Saga of Egil, Enders Game (Though I prefer the short story version.)
Most anything by David Weber, S.M. Stirling, Spider Robinson and David Drake.
Lord of the Rings trilogy and the Hobbit
Honor Harrington Series
Don Quixote
Poems by Kipling
Most books on the history of the middle ages
The Forever War
Starship Troopers
And oh so many more�

Movies
Master and Commander
Spirited Away
The Last Samurai
Whale Rider
Blade Runner
Blood of Heroes
Little Big Man
Seven Samurai
Lord of the Rings trilogy
Better than Chocolate
Labyrinth

Music
Jonathan Coulton (the greatest geek singer yet)
Zoe Keating (if you have never heard of her, Google her and enjoy)
The Cars
kodo Drums
Michael Longcor
Heather Alexandria
Meatloaf
Loreena McKennitt
Peter Gabriel

Foods
Tom Ka Gai,
Hot and Sour soup,
Good Steak,

The six things I could never do without

My Family
My friends
Cuddles and flirtations
Books
Cats
New ideas

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Hmm, the went and switched this question, and I just noticed....
So. New answer is...
My daughter and my wife.
My Friends and how to spend more time with them. New shots and combos for SCA Heavy fighting. How to get our country out of the hole it has dug for itself. World of Warcraft, City of Heroes. (yes, I'm a gamer geek, sue me)My studies at school.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, -or- on my way to an SCA event, -or- gaming somewhere, -or- out with my wife or one of my lady friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Though I am an outrageous flirt, I am really very shy...

You should message me if

You want someone who will not demand all of your time and affection, but will be there when you need and desire. If you want a friend, lover, playmate, or gaming buddy. If you want to explore some fantasies, or shady sides of yourself. Only, however, if you're not the selfish, possessive type.