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31 M Montreal, Quebec, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:52pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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***Visiting Montreal from NYC for 3 nights September 5-8th and would love to connect with some curious, creative locals and explore your lovely city together!***

I'm really good at jaywalking.

My father always told me not to make eye contact with strangers. So, you know, I am constantly doing that.

When I was eight, I broke my left arm playing a game I liked to call "How long can I ride this bike in a straight line with my eyes closed?" With age has come wisdom, but the sense of adventure remains.

(Also, it was worth it. I got my first Walkman and a cassette tape of Boyz II Men's Cooleyhighharmony.)
What I’m doing with my life
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For love: Avoiding being distracted by shiny new ideas before I finish the ones I'm currently writing.

For food and shelter: I wear many hats for a couple of the city's most awesome rock venues. Maybe you get our email blast every Tuesday.

For everything: Getting better at being human.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Memorizing poems (and reciting them with alacrity.)
Officiating weddings. (Three happy couples can vouch for this.)
Making mix CD's.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not spontaneously combusting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sauce is my favorite food.

I'm always reading. Nabokov, Tom Robbins, Bukowski, e.e. cummings, Toni Morrison, Cormac McCarthy, Steven Erikson, Faulkner, Margaret Atwood, Denis Johnson, Murakami, an abiding love of science fiction, and much more.

Right now I'm re-reading Atwood's MaddAddam trilogy.

I love listening to Bill Callahan, Grimes, David Bowie, The Beatles and Boards of Canada. I delight in Nicolas Jaar and sigh over Sharon Van Etten. I think Spiritualized's Ladies and Gentlemen We Are Floating in Space is a perfect album. I enjoy music best when it's spinning on a turntable or being played live.

I don't watch much at home, but I love going to the filmdrome. Especially a good midnight showing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My whiskered roommate.
A sense of wonder.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ceiling fans. Cuddling. How trees look like brains. The things I haven't finished writing. The things I haven't started writing. People in my life who make my heart swell. Awful stuff going on in the world and how much happier people could be. Ayahuasca and other plant medicines. Wanderlust.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Counting my lucky stars. Storming the Bastille of the Universe. You know, the usual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am downright terrible at tying my shoelaces. Seriously - they constantly come undone. Do you have any idea what it feels like to be thirty years old and googling "how to properly tie your shoes"?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Hi! You made it to the bottom! I do hope you write a message. I love meeting creative human beings who are perpetually dazzled with wonder at the strange fact of being alive.